When Women Attract Guys
Sometimes you can get so focused on attracting women that you don’t even notice when women attract you, or make an attempt at putting out the signals, as they say. How many attractive females do you think you have potentially missed from not noticing a girl checking you out, or smiling at you?
Women have several ‘habits’ or patterns of things they do. These behaviours subtly convey their attraction or interested in you.
If you can learn to recognise what these are, and pay attention to noticing these when you are out there in real life, your success with women will skyrocket. You can take full advantage of the girls that are already attracted to your manly awesomeness.
This is one of the most surefire ways to pick up women.
The clues – it’s all about non-verbal behaviour.
Here are some of the main things to look out for:
- She makes eye contact with you.
- She smiles at you, or returns your smile.
- She positions herself close to you, usually rubbing up against you, with her back to you.
- She starts dancing near to you.
- She points her feet towards you.
- She looks over her shoulder at you.
- She is playing with something, or ‘preening’ herself (touching her hair, adjusting her clothes, etc.)
- She looks away when you look, like you have caught her doing something she shouldn’t be.
Take a look at this list, and recall all the times you have seen a woman do one of these when you were there. Many of them she won’t even be aware that she is doing, it is just natural.
Some she’ll be doing after reading some ‘dating advice’ article in Cosmo, or whatever.
Get really familiar with these behaviours, learn to be constantly on the lookout for them. Recognise and act upon them.
If in doubt, *presume* she is into you.
If you are in doubt as to whether the ‘signal’ was meant for you, just assume it was. You have nothing to lose. If it wasn’t, then you can just interact with her anyway, and attract the girl in the normal way.
If it was, then you’re onto a winner, as she will already be attracted to you, with very little initial effort on your part.
Choose the most efficient way to get what you want. I’m all about minimum effort, maximum results (it’s part of being a lazy-ass-mother). If you see a girl that is already into you, then go for it. It will be a cakewalk.
No need to spend as much time attracting women that are already interested in you. Go in presuming you have attraction already.
Obviously I’m not saying avoid a girl if she doesn’t show you any of these signals. A man has a right to go after any women he chooses. If you are attractive enough in demonstrating your personality, then it won’t matter anyway.
But, if you can get away with less effort, then *go for it*. That’s how to pick up girls.
It’s not lazy, it’s *efficient*.
Till next time,
David Black
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