David Black Social Masters Blog

Nicknames are the hallmark of flirting. If you can call a girl a comedy name that is also accurate, she’s go weak at the knees for you. Especially if she’s really attractive and you’ve got the balls to do what other men wouldn’t dare.

Here’s my top 5…

5. Missy

This is a good generic name to call any woman. If she’s being a little bit on the fiery side. Missy is a great, affectionate yet flirtatious name you can use on pretty much any girl, young or old.

4. Cheeky

Cheeky is another nickname, similar to missy. If she’s giving you a bit of ‘attitude’, just smirk and called her on it, “Cheeky.” You can look at her in mock disapproval for added effect.

3. Feisty

If she starts really getting her arse-out (that’s british for getting bitchy), then crack out the fiesty card. Stay ice cool, smile a bit and say something along the lines of, “Fiesty girls like you are the best.” This will build a huge amount of tension between you. She’ll get even more annoyed that she isn’t having any effect on you. The crucial thing is to not cave or give in. Relentlessly continue to call her on it and not be affected.

2. Misery-guts

If a girl is being a bit miserable, just call her on it in a playful way. This lets her know subtly that she is bringing the whole mood down, and also displays courage, in that you’ve had the balls to mention something that most other guys would just let her get away with.

It’s useful to think of yourself as the ‘bad girl behaviour police’. Any time she breaks any social etiquette, call her on it. You will gain her respect, even her admiration.

1. Smarty-pants

By far my favourite nickname. If a girl thinks she’s getting one up on you, call her a smarty pants. This is subtly ribbing her, saying in effect ‘don’t get above your station’. It brings her down a peg or two, all in a loving, flirtatious way of course. This works even better if she’s smarter than you (so I’m told – I’ve never met a girl smarter than me yet – yeah right ;-)

Final thoughts

So that’s the top 5 nicknames you can use on pretty much any women you encounter.

Keep in mind, specific nicknames are better (for example, you could call a girl ‘muscles’ if she is a bit of a gym freak), but the five above make great fail-safes, either early on when you don’t know enough about a girl to create a unique one, or if you need something on the spot and your mind draws a blank.

Speak soon,
David Black