Now at uni in our halls there were 12 blokes and there was one bloke called Dave, he had ginger hair, was not bad looking but certainly was not an obviously handsome bloke. But he had the confidence to always approach women, and he could flirt brilliantly, more often than not he would pull on a night out THere were other good looking blokes but because they lacked the confidence they were less successful. It really is not about whether you are good looking, if you are confident and comfortable with yourself and your appearance, trust me it is a major attraction.