Pushing Through Your Comfort Zone
Was just reading great article over at ‘Attract Women Anywhere’ blog about pushing through your comfort zone. Worth checking it out: Being Comfortable vs. Pushing your Comfort Zone? Oyyy, what to do!
You need to push outside your comfort zone in order to become more confident in social situations. It is something I feel should be done gradually. Anyone who says instant confidence overnight is not being realistic. You could act more confident but it won’t be natural and real.
If you want to gain confidence as quickly as possible, then try to incorporate this whole concept of pushing outside your comfort zone into your everyday life.
During a normal day try to find ways to push through your comfort zone. If this is something as simple as asking a random girl what the time is then do that. If it is asking a shop assistant her opinion on whether a shirt looks good on you or not, then do that.
As you get more comfortable with these, you will start looking for new ways to test your comfort zone. Each time you break through this new level of comfort then you are progressing.
Soon you will look back and think, “why was I ever worried about these issues?”
Word of warning
Pushing outside your comfort zone is one of the best things you can do. Not only for meeting women but every other part of your life. It will help you to achieve things that you may never have thought possible.
However if you take it to the extreme then it can be detrimental to you.
There was a rock climber called Dan Osman who pushed his comfort zone as far as possible. He would do speed climbing up huge mountains with no rope or other safety devices. He achieved awesome results because he pushed his comfort zone as far as possible, but it also led to him being killed.
As with anything in your life, if you don’t go overboard then you will benefit massively from pushing outside your comfort zone.
Catch you laters,
Preston Blain
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