How To Crash and Burn Like Neil Strauss on The View


Firstly I would like to point out that I am a huge fan of Neil Strauss. I have read the game and thoroughly enjoyed it. If you haven’t read it I recommend you buy it and read it straight away because the guy is a genius.

However I recently saw this video of him watched him on US female-dominated TV talk-show The View, check it out:

Whew, they really ran him through the ringer, eh?

When Neil agreed to appear on this show, I’m sure he was well aware he was venturing into the lion’s den so to speak. He knew full well what was in store for him, and he probably prepared himself for the worst.

Notice the way the women try to control the frame. They are literally fighting each other for it.

The one to his right (no idea of her name) keeps giving him orders like, “Say the opener; get on with it; give me the neg…”

Personally, if this kind of thing went down in an interaction I was in, that girl would have been *put in her place*. She was borderline being rude, interrupting Neil, and even the other women sometimes.

That kind of behaviour is not acceptable in my book.

So what could you do if you find yourself in a similar situation, where there is one feisty girl and she is trying to control the frame, give you orders, or tell you what to do, etc?

Here are some examples you can use:

“Whoa there, wait you turn bossy.”

“It’s rude to interrupt. Wait your turn missy.”

“Didn’t your mummy tell you it’s rude to talk when someone else is?”

Say these with a fairly stern expression, and look her directly in the eyes. This takes balls, but works a treat. You get the idea.

Treat her like she has been a naughty little girl, and you are telling her off. Like her father, or a teacher would.

Boom. Girl just got discplined.

She will either back right down (and her attraction for you will skyrocket) or she will fight you verbally (and the sexual tension will skyrocket). This is a win-win scenario.

If she decides to fight, make sure you always have a better answer. This idea that women always win arguments is total bs. Given enough practice, with enough women in the scenario, and you will have heard everything that will come up.

Always have a better answer, and carry on until she is lost for words. Victory is yours.

The whole group and the girl will respect you massively for it. The girl might get annoyed but trust me this will be short lived.

So what can you learn from this video? You can learn how important it is to control an interaction with a woman. You need to demonstrate those leadership qualities and don’t be afraid to tell them off if they are being rude.

But maybe I’m just too mean, and Neil is much nicer than me…

Till next time,

David Black

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  • I don't think he crashed and burned. I could see those view girls getting really nasty over the thought of a "pickup artist"
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  • Hey - all publicity is good publicity right? Huge ups for Niel.
  • Daaron
    He is talking nitro fast though.
  • Cool video, but I wouldn't consider it a crash and burn. Neil actually did quite well, especially considering the circumstances. There aren't a whole of men in this world that could have maintained the degree of composure that he did on a TV show watched by millions, with four hostesses who are suspicious about PUAs.

    He was able to keep his composure even when the girls threw some barbs at him (there was some ignoring there too) and he was able to win them over by being self deprecating and reframing the PUA community in a positive light. Even though Neil didn't dominate the conversation, he probably had the strongest frame of the group. Bravo.

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  • The title of this post is meant to be tongue-in-cheek, evidently some people aren't getting this ;-)

    Obviously Neil didn't crash and burn. Yes he did quite well handling himself.

    I would have loved to see him go head-to-head with the black girl, and unleash some Rick H on her ass, hehe.
  • afronaut
    Nice post but I'm not sure about the context here. Strauss was obviously there to promote himself and his book...would trying to control the frame in this situation have helped his objective of getting his name in the public domain. I think he handled himself okay by not reacting to any 'shit tests'. In the end, it seemed to me, that they secumbed to his charm. To be honest I'd be surprised if Strauss tolerated the black chick's attitude...altho' I'm wondering if her attitude was just for effect as she's on TV, and just needed to help spice up the conversation.
    A good example of controling the frame is a mystery youtube vid that shows how Mystery finally got some woman to finaly submit to his charm.
  • Thanks for the comment afronaut,

    Fair points. The girl was blatantly playing it up, it is her show after all.

    And yes Neil was being nice because he wanted to promote his book.

    Personally, a girl telling me, "Do this, do that..." she's gonna get taken down a peg, irrespective of the situation.

    And I wouldn't give a shit cos I don't got no book to sell :-)
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