Naturally Attractive: Think Again!


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I am sure at some point you have wondered “Why don’t women want to go out with you?” or talk to you for that matter :-).

But does this mean you are not naturally attractive?

We have all been there and I am sure like me you have questioned whether or not you are an attractive man.

Personally I believe everyone has the potential to be naturally attractive. The problem I feel comes more down more to how you portray yourself to women rather than whether or not you are attractive.

Could it be that you already are attractive, it’s just that you don’t portray it to women?

This is a very important question to ask yourself. When I was younger I believed that I couldn’t get women cos’ I wasn’t attractive. When I talk about being attractive I don’t mean looks I mean personality.

I know this because I have been told I am a good looking guy and yet I couldn’t get a girlfriend. I was puzzled why I couldn’t get a girlfriend because I thought it was all down to the way you looked. This made me feel worse cos’ it was kinda saying that I look good but my personality must suck balls because I still couldn’t get a girl.

This was not the case. I mean I am a genuine guy, I go to the gym, I can perform magic, etc. I was actually an attractive guy, I just needed to know how to get it across to women. Only then they could see the sort of guy I am and that’s when I became more attractive to women.

Take a look at yourself from someone else’s perspective

Take a step back and have a look at yourself. When you look at things from a someone else’s perspective you realise that things are more rosy than you first thought.

It’s easy to look at everyone else who has what you want and think that you are in the worst position. Yet other people like work colleagues or friends have different opinions. Problem is they will never say it to your face because that’s the way life is.

Have you ever been in that situation where you are talking to someone about someone else. They were like, “Yeah Tom’s an awesome guy, always makes me laugh with his antics”. They will say it to you and others, but won’t say it to the person who they are talking about.

You need to look closely at yourself from a neutral standpoint and pick out all of the qualities that you posses and then make sure that you display these qualities to others, especially women.

What does this mean?

There are probably a number of times when people have talked about you in this way but obviously won’t say it to your face. Therefore the chances are you are a naturally attractive guy who people like, you just need to show this to women that you talk to.

What should you do now?

Instead of changing who you are because you think there’s something wrong with you, instead put yourself out there. You may find that you do need to take a long look at who you are but the only way you will find this out is to put yourself out there.

If you are already a great guy then you need to just improve the way you interact with women. I think most guys are going to find themselves in this position. Why? Because we all have great qualities. Your father met your mother and had you. Therefore you will have a lot of his qualities. If he was able to find someone to be with then you have the same opportunity. That’s just the way life works. It’s natural.

Continual Improvement

You may realise once you have put yourself out there that you may need to do a little work on becoming a more attractive guy. Sounds harsh but then again life is harsh. If this is the case then you should check out “Death of Game” which will help you become more naturally attractive to women. That’s right no need for crazy Memorised Routines, Unproven Theories, ‘Game Playing’, etc.

Speak soon,
Preston Blain

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  • http://www.stevescottsite.com/ Steve Scott Site

    You know how people say “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder?” I think that's true because guys that aren't very physically attractive still get girlfriends and wives. Some people may argue that a big bank account is an easy way for that to happen, but self-confidence is pretty important in dating and in the other parts of your life, too. If you're too shy or uncomfortable to talk to people, you probably won't make many friends or get many dates.

  • http://social-masters.com/blog Preston Blain

    Totally agree self confidence is important. You need the confidence to interact with women in order to get them attracted to you. If you don't interact with them then it's gonna be pretty bloody difficult indeed :-)

  • thegoodweazel

    I think that how you conduct yourself is a big factor in how women see you and how attractive they find you. Ive always noticed that when I feel good in myself and feel happy and confident then Im more likely to get women give me the eye and Im more likely to feel like I have the confidence to go for it. On the other hand when you are feeling a bit low for some reason or are going through a dry spell then you sometimes lose your spark and therefore seem less attractive to women. Just my theory anyway.