Are You Looking For A Girlfriend?
When is comes to meeting women there is a lot of talk about picking up women in pubs and night clubs. This is great for one night stands and occasionally a relationship. But some guys want to know how to find a girlfriend. If you are looking for a girlfriend you are better off going to places where you can speak to women properly. Also places where you are speaking to the girl and not her ‘alcohol’ alter ego :).
From my experience, relationships from nights out tend to be very chaotic. You meet up again and you realise that they are not the person you thought they were. It can sometimes be like you are not talking to the same person at all.
Now I am not saying don’t bother. If you go out and meet a girl and arrange a second date then by all means go for it. However just bare in mind that it may not go as smoothly as you would like.
If you are seriously trying to find a girlfriend, then l recommend looking for a girlfriend in places where you will find girls with a more long term attitude.
These are definitely good places to get a girlfriend:
- Bookstores – Great place for meeting single women. Especially the more intellectual ones. They tend to make a cute girlfriend which I like :).
- Coffee shops – Single women love going to coffee shops with their friends. Great place to meet a new girlfriend. Unlike in a pub or club you will get to speak to the non intoxicated women here.
- Social circles – Bit of a cliche. But you get to know them before moving the relationship forward. Always a possibilty of the girl becoming your girlfriend.
- Online – Getting an online girlfriend is so much easier than before. So many websites. Girls on here are single and tend to be looking for a boyfriend. Just remember to organise a meeting as soon as possible. Don’t get stuck in just an online relationship. Big NO NO.
You maybe thinking why has he not mentioned at work. Yes it is very possible to meet women at work, and a lot of people do. Just don’t let it become a crutch. Always remember that there are millions of women outside of work. Also if it goes sour it can make life uncomfortable. So I am not saying that you should not bother. I am just saying tread with caution.
Now you know where to look, I would recommend that you check out David’s article ‘How To Get a Girlfriend‘. This will help you to get a girlfriend in the places I have listed above.
So there you have it. If you are looking for a girlfriend, try looking in these places and I am sure that you will find a girl in no time.
Catch you laters,
Preston Blain
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