“How To” With a Girl – Powerful State is Key
Before I started learning how to interact properly with women, my state of mind was well and truly f**cked. I was not in the position to meet women and to be successful in those situations. How to impress a girl was a mile from my mind.
When I was younger I was a confident outgoing person. As I got older I lost all that confidence because I suffered from OCD (Obsessive compulsive disorder). I would wash my hands until they were red raw and bleeding. My mental state was in total disarray.
I had to fight my own subconscious for years to overcome this illness. I have managed to overcome it, but it still crops up now and again. I need to be aware of this and make sure I keep track of it. This requires me to keep an eye on my state.
Now I know not all of you will have suffered with this issue, but it is so beneficial to be able to control your state of mind in any situation. If you are the sort of guy who goes on nights out, looks at girls and thinks ‘I should be able to approach her, but am not really in the right mindset to do so’ then this will be invaluable to you.
Any of the questions I mentioned earlier to do with “How to” with a girl is helped by having a good state of mind. Getting into a good mood is so important. Getting into a good mood can be the difference between approaching a girl or making up some elaborate excuse not to bother. Or when talking to a girl, the whole interaction going more smoothly because you are feeling good. Remember a time when you were in an amazing mood. I bet you felt like you could take the whole world on. Like you were invincible. Very cool.
How do we get ourselves into a good state of mind. There are a number of ways you can do it. You probably have things that put you into a good mood already. Just do those things.
Here are some example of things that you could use;
1 – Watching funny videos on youtube before going out
2 – Listening to your favorite music
3 – Going to the gym before going out
4 – Talking to shop assistants, bar staff, till operators etc. People you can talk to easily and build up your confidence before approaching girls for real.
These are just a few example that I have used in the past. What you need to do is find stuff that really puts you into a good state and use it before/during your interactions with women. This will help you get into that ‘Lets just go for it attitude’, meaning you will approach more women and therefore have more opportunities to meet more women.
When you think “How to” with a girl remember your state of mind plays a massive role in your future success.
Catch you laters,
Preston Blain
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