How To Get Women’s Attention
If you wanna get women to notice you, then you gotta stand out from the crowd, rise above the noise. You gotta be different, in an attractive way.
There is a right way to do this, that will build attraction, and a wrong way, that will lessen attraction, or weird her out even.
The ‘Wrong Way’(tm):
Buying her things (flowers, chocolates, jewelry, holiday together, tickets to somewhere, etc, etc.) Trying to impress her. This might me by showing off your cash, or your fancy car, or trying too hard to impress with a talent like your artistic skill, writing, or musical ability.
You can demonstrate that you are a cool guy with this kind of stuff, but there is a right way to go about it.
Enter the ‘Reluctant Hero’…
If you’re anything like me, then any kind of attention, whilst nice, is actually pretty weird and uncomfortable to you. This is cool, it’s totally normal. And the awesome thing is, if you play on it a bit, then it can be a really endearing quality to your character. Women will love it in you.
How to demonstrate this:
An example:- Imagine you play the guitar (btw highly recommended, very rewarding experience, well worth it)…
So, during the course of normal conversation you may mention casually that you play the guitar, but don’t make a big deal of it, downplay it even.
If she’s interested, she’ll probe you for more info. If she doesn’t, then don’t push it, she probably isn’t that interested. Just carry on and casually mention other cool things you have going on in your life until you strike a chord.
Then, if the chance arises where you are in a situation where you can play the guitar, and she can watch you do it, then be coy about it. Talk about how you don’t really play for people much, because you don’t really like the attention.
Make her beg you a little bit to perform in front of her. Then do it, but just a bit (make sure it’s good though). Leave her wanting more.
She will try to get you to do/show her more, but be strong & resist the temptation. You must be the leader. You set the schedule.
She needs to know that she has to earn it.
This is how to get a women’s attention for real, and generate lasting attraction. Go try it.
Speak soon,
David Black
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