How to Get A Girl To Go Out With You


how to get a girl to go out with you4 Do you want to know how to get a girl to go out with you? Especially that one particular girl that you really like. Getting the girl you want will require you to follow certain principles in order to be successful.

In my eyes, it’s all about putting a chain reaction into action. What I mean by this is if you go up to some random girl and ask her if she wants to go out on a date with you then you are probably going to have a low success rate. Instead you need to start with an effective strategy of getting her ‘motivated’ to go on a date with you first.

Build attraction

First you need to be able to talk to a girl and get her attracted to you. Knowing how to get a girl attracted to you is the first step in order for you to get a girl to go out with you.

If you can build attraction the girl will:

1) Want to be around you
2) Want to talk to you
3) Therefore be more willing to go out on a date with you

You can build attraction with any girl you speak to. Whether that is a girl that you have met in a pub, on the street or at work. It does not matter where you meet them there is always the possibility that you can get a girl to like you.

So how do you build attraction?

Attraction is built by showing certain qualities that women find attractive. If you can display these qualities to a girl then ultimately you are giving yourself the best chance of getting the girl you want.

If you want loads of specific tip on how to get girls attracted to you then check out how to attract girls. This article covers everything you need to know in order to build attraction. After reading this you can start implementing the principles in order to become the type of guy women are attracted to.

Once she is attracted

After you have built attraction you need to suggest doing something together at a later date. The most obvious way is just directly suggest something. Use the magic word “let’s”. Something along the lines of “Let’s go (bowling/for a walk/etc.)”.

There are other ways to word it too. Ways that emphasis the qualities that you want to portray to the girl whilst asking her to meet up.

For example, “You and me should meet up this weekend. When are you free?”. You are making it sound as though you and her are going to go out this weekend and you just need to clarify when she is free. This shows leadership qualities, confidence and go getting attitude. All very attractive indeed. Also if she is busy this weekend she will normally say “I am busy this weekend but how about…”

Another example is trying something like, “There is a party at my friend’s house this weekend, you should come along, and bring your friends.” Instead of making her feel as though you are asking her out, you are just making it sound like you like her company and that she should join you at a party. This is less threatening than a ‘date’.

Final Thoughts

You now know how to get a girl to go out with you. You must always build attraction first otherwise you are going to be struggling to get any success asking a girl out. Make sure you read how to attract girls so that you know exactly how to get a girl attracted to you.

Speak soon,
David Black

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