How To Get A Girl To dance With You In A Club

how to get a girl to dance with you
Lots of guys want to know how to get a girl to dance with you. This article is going to cover the problem of getting women to dance with you who are already on the dance floor without having to learn to club dance amazingly. Though learning how to dance won’t hurt, it’s not a necessity.

Yeah you have got to have balls of steel to do this, but I like to make this blog suited to both experienced guys as well as beginners. So if this little tip is something you find a little too challenging then by all means come back to it sometime in the future. The near future hopefully… :-)

This is by all means not the only way to get a girl to dance with you. However I do believe it’s very effective and if used correctly can cause immediate attraction towards you from the women you are going after. Plus if it works you suddenly find yourself dancing with the girl you want.

I bet you are keen to know how to get a girl to dance with you when she is already on the dance floor. You have probably been in a situation in the past where you wanted to dance with a girl, but just didn’t know how to go about it without looking like a fool.

Well it’s quite simple really… you start dancing, when you see an attractive girl you want to dance with, you go up to them, take their hand and spin them towards you and start dancing with them.

Yes it’s scary if you’ve never done it before, but it works like a charm.

And if she doesn’t want to dance with you (this is the rare exception by the way). She will just not spin round when you lead her hand. Turn away and find the next girl you want to dance with. No great shakes.

See when it comes to getting a girl who is already dancing, you can’t stop her and talk as she won’t appreciate the interruption to her having fun.

Instead you need to match her energy levels. She’s already dancing; you’re already dancing.

By taking her hand and spinning her around straight away you are making it abundantly clear that you are dancing with them. She won’t be thinking, “Is this guy trying to dance with me or what”. You are being a dominant leader, and most girls will follow that lead.

The good thing is, women love men who know exactly what they want. They especially like men who know what they want and just go for it. So by doing this, you demonstrate qualities that women love. If you wanna learn more about about value then check out how to demonstrate value.

Straight away you’re coming across as a confident guy, someone who won’t let anything phase him. Women love guys who are confident. I have said it before and I will say it again: confidence is a very attractive trait to demonstrate to a girl.

So now you know how to get a girl to dance with you if she is already strutting her stuff. Next time your on the dance floor and you want to dance with a particular girl then give this method a try. It’s a bit ballsy yes, and may be a bit intimidating, but just give it a go and see how you get on.

There is no failure, there is only feedback.

Speak soon,
David Black

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  • Steve Scott Site

    I think in most cases a girl would probably dance with you at least once even if she wasn't totally into it, so it's worth a shot!

  • Jake Vandenhoff

    Great tip David! I too have found that starting out strong and ballsy makes it easy to escalate quick…

    Another trick I like (because I can't dance at all) is to go up to a girl, put both arms up, and just kind of 'rock' back and forth. it's kind of like a gentle two arm fist pump… I don't know what it is, but this move causes girls to start grindin'!

  • David Black

    Not in UK clubs mate. I've seen some horrendously embarrassing things happen on that ever-sticky dancefloor.

  • David Black

    It's called the Snoop D.O.G.G. Not really, I have no idea what it's called, but years of watching MTV has conditioned all girls to respond to this gesture with mucho grindin' bootay :-)

  • Micheal

    Not in my country of mongolia, of course there is alot of attractive and hot chicks. Last night i had a risky ballsy night in the clubs here in mongolia, after i lived in usa many years. i just wanted to dance, not even thinking f***ing any girl. And some girls think it over, here boys are just want spend a night with them or what, they think im same. But im a man enough to know how to turn girl around. How can i entertain myself that im a man not a boy without saying? My country girls are like a country girls, but i have no choice since living here, cuz they are hot enough like a usa-asian girls u know

  • Abfemo

    Love it!

    To the point, articulate and very interesting,

    your Woman!