How To Get a Girl With Jedi Mind Tricks
There is a lot of buzz around the principles of natural game these days in the online ‘geek-turned-hero’ world of teaching men how to get a girl.
This is a good thing. I see the process of learning to be awesome at attracting women more as a refinement of the natural gifts you have already been given, rather than a cumulative building of knowledge, techniques and routines.
Though the ’soak up more stuff to lean how to get girls to like you’ method is appealing to us all, it’s not always what is best for us. Just because you want to eat chocolate all the time, doesn’t mean it’s good for you.
Just learning how to get any girl, or how to get a kiss, is nowhere near as satisfying as learning how to love a girl, and create a deep, meaningful bond that transcends the mundane dull ache of daily life.
When you learn how to feel a girl from the inside. To connect with her on this deep, almost spiritual level, you will realise that what we see on TV – what we think we want, and what actually truly motivates us, are often very different things.
So I thought today I’d share with you a powerful 3-step mental imagery technique that has helped me tremendously on my path to mastery with women and social interactions, I call it ‘The Call To Battle’ because it’s like that giant skyscraper-sized horn they blow in Lord of The Rings when the bad dudes are approaching Helm’s Deep – it makes your mind sit up, take notice, and get ready for some serious action.
If you can, find a quiet place to do this. Shut off anything with an ‘off’ switch so you don’t get interrupted. This is possibly the most important thing you will ever do in your life, regarding meeting women, so no interruptions. You are the most important thing for the next couple of minutes, everything else can wait.
So Get Comfy, and Let’s Begin…
1. Stop for a second, and ask yourself: “In all of this, what is my desired outcome?”
What is it that you ultimately want to get out of learning how to meet and attract beautiful women?
If you are like me and most guys, your natural tendency is to immediately imagine hot tubs filled with droves of gorgeous nineteen-year-olds. Stay with that for a moment, or maybe two, and then let it pass.
What, deep down, is the real outcome you want? Do you want to get girls to notice you? Do you want to know how to bed a girl?
Banging loads of women is great in the short term, but it does not provide deep seated emotional satisfaction. And I have an inkling that beneath all the flashy glamorous pickup-artist exterior, most guys in this community are looking for something that runs a lot deeper, to the core of our very beings.
It’s not all limos, gold chains and fur coats…
Perhaps your desired outcome is to be free of that irritating inability to have the women you desire in your life. I know that was huge one for me back in the day. You see what you want, but you can’t get it, and don’t know how. I hated that.
Or perhaps it is to eventually have the freedom to be able to choose women, rather than always feeling like they are the ones choosing you.
Or maybe you want to know specific techniques to email girls with, and know how to get that girl at the office you have had your eye on for the past god-knows-how-long.
Or another possibility you might want to never again lift a finger chasing women, and all the beautiful, intelligent, rich ones just find you, knock down your front door, and demand at gun point for you to be their boyfriend. Or maybe not, you get the idea.
If you have a pen & paper handy, go ahead and write your ideas down. Don’t worry about being ‘right’, there are no wrong answers to this.
Writing it down really solidifies it in your mind, and sets your subconscious to work on getting you there on autopilot.
Ok, now you’ve done that, on to the next step…
2. Once you have what you want clearly decided, now ask yourself: How will I know when I have achieved it?
Really focus and think what success will look like for you. Think about how to get a love life, and what that means to you personally.
Maybe it is finding an amazing woman to spend the rest of your life with. Maybe it is being able to meet and attract as many attractive intelligent women as you can find. The individual picture of success is specific to you. Only you can know what that is.
Think of this part as more like the goal to aim for. So if it is to be able to attract women you meet, how will you know when you have success in that area? Is it when you can go out, approach a group and go home with the hottest girl perhaps?
3. And now that you have your outcome clear, and you know what success will look like, time for the fun part. Ask yourself: What will it feel like to have achieved this outcome?
Imagine you are there, you have gone through the whole process and you are now basking in success. Just picture that in your mind. What do you see? Who are you with? What can you do? And most importantly of all, how does having this level of success make you feel?
When I, the honorable David Black, did this exercise several years ago, I had very different answers to what I have today doing it.
This is an exercise that you can do many times in the future, and each time you do it, you will benefit in a different way. It’s really powerful stuff.
If you had any insights or breakthroughs you want to share whilst going through this process, I would love for you to share them by writing a brief comment below.
Speak soon,
David Black
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