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Many men at least once in their life time will ask the question How to approach girl? I have written before about how to approach a girl, I mentioned that for most men it is one of the scariest things to think of and do.

If you want general information on approaching girls then check out that post. It covers the components of all approaches which includes street approaches.

Today I am going to focus on one particular aspect of approaching and that is how to approach a girl on the street. This maybe considered the scariest approach of them all. However this should not be the case. In fact, done right, it can be one of the easiest.

Think of it this way: When you approach on a night out, women are expecting it. They have their defenses up, and you need to work much harder to build attraction and cut through the ‘persona’ to the point where she wants to be with you.

If you got approached 10 times every time you went out, you would have to find a way to weed out the ones you don’t think are suitable quickly. Well that is exactly what women do, especially the hot ones.

In the daytime however, the same girl may have only been approached a few times when she is just walking down the street.

This fact alone gives you an advantage. If she is not ‘conditioned’ to be approached so much in the daytime, then there are fewer mental defenses set up in her mind, meaning you have a much higher chance of the interaction progressing with minimal hassle and ‘bitchiness’ on her behalf.

So how do we go about starting an interaction on the street? There are a few ways it can be done, and after reading this post you will be able to go out and start interactions on the street no problem.

Remember, it does not really matter what type of opener you use on a girl in the street. Most that work at night will work during the day. So if you like to use canned openers where you ask their opinion for example go ahead it will work fine in a street situation. If you use compliment openers such as I love your shoes, top hair etc then again it will work fine. What ever you want to use go for it.

As for the approach itself there are some subtle differences. In a street situation 90% of the time the girl will be walking.

How to approach girl in the street? Something to consider…

There are 3 types of approach in a street situation:

Non-moving women. This includes women leaning against a building or sitting on a bench

Make eye contact. Get close to them. Make an observation based on something they are doing or something they are wearing. Avoid flat-out compliments.

Walking in the same direction

Catch her up somehow, either at a crossing, or if she stops to look at something. Then go into your opener. Pay attention to your body language and volume so she doesn’t perceive you as a threat. You want to put her at ease, not frighten her.

Walking in the opposite direction