How Porn Can Help You Pick Up Women
Most pick up artists will tell you that porn is terrible for your interactions with women. Commonly held assumptions are that it will prevent you from picking up girls for the following reasons:
- It stops you going out because it is the easier alternative. Why the hassle of meeting women when you can jump on the internet and with a click of a button…?
- Porn & Masturbation (they tend to go hand in hand) relieves sexual tension, which lowers testosterone and therefore desire to meet women. Motivation down the toilet, literally.
- Most men feel guilty and ashamed afterwards, which lowers their morale. No confidence – no women for you sonny-Jim.
These reasons are valid. However, ever one to buck the trend, I have managed to find a way to incorporate porn into picking up women, without all the negative impact of the points above.
It does take a bit of self-control, and won’t be for everyone, but if you can pull it off (hehe), then it may just have a huge positive impact on your interactions with women.
I read an excellent article the other day by The Modern Savage called ‘Effects of Male Masturbation on Attracting Women ‘ and he had this great idea of not masturbating for a week (if you want scientific reasons behind the link between masturbation, motivation and sex drive, I highly recommend you read his article).
The main reasoning behind it being that if you don’t ejaculate then your testosterone increases gradually on the first 5 days then spikes on days 6 and 7. This makes you horny as hell and so results in you being more keen to approach women and attract women thus meaning you will probably be more successful in the field.
Great insight, which I totally agree with. However, the idea of going 6-7 days without sex or masturbation could drive an insane man sane. Personally, I don’t think even my ‘Iron Constitution’(tm) is up to this challenge.
So if you want all the benefits of this method – increased drive, sexually charged interactions, more motivation to approach, but like me you don’t want to have to expend loads of effort, or self-control, then I have come up with an alternative ‘ultimate lazy dude’ version.
Here’s the deal: Just before going out, watch porn for 10 minutes or so.
Easy you think? Well, here’s the catch: *No touching* :-)
Not so easy now eh? hehe.
If you can do it (and it may not go exactly as planned first go, but that’s OK just keep trying until you can exercise a wee bit of control), then it will make you all hot & bothered and sexually charged. Boom, instant sexual motivation.
Now deny yourself the usual release for this tension (i.e. touching your willy). And instead, go out into the real world.
Trust me, this makes you wanna approach and attract any female you find attractive. You are in that state of mind. You want to ‘find a mate’ to have sex with, and so you will try that much harder to pull a woman.
Not only that, it also makes you wanna succeed more because you really really want to remove this sexual tension, and the normal way of doing that (i.e. sitting in front of porn on the pc) has been removed entirely.
You will find yourself fired up and much more motivated than usual. You will have more courage, and be willing to push outside of your normal comfort zone easier than normal.
I have used this technique myself, to great effect, and I challenge you to try the same the next time you go out.
Give it a go and let me know how you get on.
Speak soon,
David Black
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