Getting With Women (Scarcity)
How far would you go to sleep with a girl? Getting with women, whether young women, mature women, Asian women etc is one of the greatest things in life but sometimes it just ain’t worth the effort, plus you could use the time saved more productively. Don’t get me wrong, any chance I get I do my best to take. Just don’t let scarcity influence your decisions.
The other day I went out and got a girls number whilst walking through my local town. During the interaction I found out that she was only in town for the week for a training exercise for work. When I phoned her the next day (I thought I better not hang around) she had left town and moved on to the next city Bristol. This happened to be an hours drive from mine. She was only going to be there for a few days before going back home which was over 3 hours away. Fuck that I thought.
Why?
I had also found out that she had a boyfriend, was staying in a hostel and was working a lot. I could tell she was well into me by the interaction and the phone call. However because of her current situation it was gonna be really difficult to get her into bed. I was also working that week so I had limited chance to get up to Bristol and I am sure as hell was not travelling 6 hours there and back to her home town just to get laid.
It was at this point I realised it was best to give it up as a bad job. Abundance mentality in full flow :).
When speaking to some friends of mine though, they were like “You should have gone up and hit that”. Thing is, with the travelling and the situation, it seemed to much like hard work and I believed it was best to knock it on the head and use my time more productively. Meaning going out and meeting other women.
The morale of this story is, don’t let scarcity effect your decision making. There are so many girls out there that you really do not need to go out your way for one girl. I know I can go out again and meet other girls and get their numbers.
Getting with women will not be a problem if you always remember that there are so many women out there to choose from.
Catch you laters,
Preston Blain
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