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	<title>Comments on: 30 Proven Flirting Tips, for Men</title>
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		<title>By: Wickedaj87</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Mar 2012 22:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I always wondered why men think they make good flirting experts and can give awesome advice to other men, telling them what works and doesn&#039;t. You want to know what generally works, then asking a female is your best bet.... 

&quot;24. Any time she displays even a hint of some kind of incompetence, 
exaggerate it, to *the max*. If she can’t type on her phone, say 
something like, “My 6 year old cousin can txt better than you.” If she 
mumbles or makes a mistake when talking, say something like, “I didn’t 
know it was ‘special needs’ night tonight.” Smile when you say these 
things.&quot;
THAT section, NO GOOD. I am a 24 year old female and I can guarantee you that any man who does this part is going to either get slapped, a drink in their face or similar. Teasing the girl works to a degree and depends on what is said, this is NOT teasing, this is making fun of her. That &quot;special needs&quot; part would be a LOW blow, and smiling during any of that makes it worse. All this does is make you look like a complete jackass.
&quot;&quot;23. Tell her what to do: “Hold this a sec”; “Come here…”; “Look at 
this…”; “Let’s go over there, c’mon.”; “Check this out.” and so on. You 
are leading her subtly, and by following what you say, she is accepting 
the frame. Compliance is her subtly acknowledging you as the leader, the
 dominant one.&quot;
Once again, This part works to a certain degree if you&#039;re careful; ORDERING her around makes you look too bossy. Yes women like a certain amount of dominance with a man but not too much. I agree, subtlety is key here. Don&#039;t make her hold your things EVER (unless you&#039;re dating her). Most women don&#039;t like being treated like a door mat. The &quot;look at this&quot; is fine. If you&#039;re going to try the &quot;come here&quot; don&#039;t just use that try &quot;Come here so you can see this/come here there&#039;s more room&quot; give her a good reason why she should come to you. Otherwise it&#039;s going to seem like you&#039;re trying to lead her away to kill her or something worse.

Other than that really... most of the tips should work if executed properly. But if your goal was a nasty (and i don&#039;t mean &quot;i want a girl to call me daddy and spank me&quot; nasty, I mean &quot;I&#039;m gonna need to see the health clinic after this&quot; nasty) girl who&#039;s looking for a quickie (or an alibi, hey you never know) do all the wrong things I mentioned above, they like that &quot;I&#039;m the biggest douche-asshole-you&#039;ll-ever-meet&quot; technique.

Good pointers: Sometimes, often times rather, simple IS BEST. &quot;Hi, I&#039;m (Your name here). I saw you across the bar (or similar). (Give a compliment, not rude&quot;You have HUGE boobs&quot; or too cheesy &quot;Did it hurt when you fell out of heaven?&quot;). Can I buy you a drink?&quot; The &quot;buy you a drink&quot; normally works after introduction, not AS the introduction. The &quot;would you like to dance&quot; works after you&#039;ve chatted her up a bit (and it&#039;s the proper location for dancing, so obviously asking in the middle of a cafe at 10am isn&#039;t the place for that line.). 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I always wondered why men think they make good flirting experts and can give awesome advice to other men, telling them what works and doesn&#8217;t. You want to know what generally works, then asking a female is your best bet&#8230;. </p>
<p>&#8220;24. Any time she displays even a hint of some kind of incompetence,<br />
exaggerate it, to *the max*. If she can’t type on her phone, say<br />
something like, “My 6 year old cousin can txt better than you.” If she<br />
mumbles or makes a mistake when talking, say something like, “I didn’t<br />
know it was ‘special needs’ night tonight.” Smile when you say these<br />
things.&#8221;<br />
THAT section, NO GOOD. I am a 24 year old female and I can guarantee you that any man who does this part is going to either get slapped, a drink in their face or similar. Teasing the girl works to a degree and depends on what is said, this is NOT teasing, this is making fun of her. That &#8220;special needs&#8221; part would be a LOW blow, and smiling during any of that makes it worse. All this does is make you look like a complete jackass.<br />
&#8220;&#8221;23. Tell her what to do: “Hold this a sec”; “Come here…”; “Look at<br />
this…”; “Let’s go over there, c’mon.”; “Check this out.” and so on. You<br />
are leading her subtly, and by following what you say, she is accepting<br />
the frame. Compliance is her subtly acknowledging you as the leader, the<br />
 dominant one.&#8221;<br />
Once again, This part works to a certain degree if you&#8217;re careful; ORDERING her around makes you look too bossy. Yes women like a certain amount of dominance with a man but not too much. I agree, subtlety is key here. Don&#8217;t make her hold your things EVER (unless you&#8217;re dating her). Most women don&#8217;t like being treated like a door mat. The &#8220;look at this&#8221; is fine. If you&#8217;re going to try the &#8220;come here&#8221; don&#8217;t just use that try &#8220;Come here so you can see this/come here there&#8217;s more room&#8221; give her a good reason why she should come to you. Otherwise it&#8217;s going to seem like you&#8217;re trying to lead her away to kill her or something worse.</p>
<p>Other than that really&#8230; most of the tips should work if executed properly. But if your goal was a nasty (and i don&#8217;t mean &#8220;i want a girl to call me daddy and spank me&#8221; nasty, I mean &#8220;I&#8217;m gonna need to see the health clinic after this&#8221; nasty) girl who&#8217;s looking for a quickie (or an alibi, hey you never know) do all the wrong things I mentioned above, they like that &#8220;I&#8217;m the biggest douche-asshole-you&#8217;ll-ever-meet&#8221; technique.</p>
<p>Good pointers: Sometimes, often times rather, simple IS BEST. &#8220;Hi, I&#8217;m (Your name here). I saw you across the bar (or similar). (Give a compliment, not rude&#8221;You have HUGE boobs&#8221; or too cheesy &#8220;Did it hurt when you fell out of heaven?&#8221;). Can I buy you a drink?&#8221; The &#8220;buy you a drink&#8221; normally works after introduction, not AS the introduction. The &#8220;would you like to dance&#8221; works after you&#8217;ve chatted her up a bit (and it&#8217;s the proper location for dancing, so obviously asking in the middle of a cafe at 10am isn&#8217;t the place for that line.).</p>
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		<title>By: Flirten</title>
		<link>http://social-masters.com/blog/flirting-tips/comment-page-1#comment-496</link>
		<dc:creator>Flirten</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 14:38:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for this great tips, i hope now it is getting easier to meet new girls.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this great tips, i hope now it is getting easier to meet new girls.</p>
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