30 Proven Flirting Tips, for Men


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30 of the hottest, coolest, most effective flirting tips ever created. Follow this flirting advice and you’ll crush it in your interactions with women. These work to attract women anywhere. Office, bar, pub, club, party, bookstore, coffeeshop – anywhere. Let’s learn how to flirt…

What To Do:

1. Eliminate any need for acceptance or approval – these are your enemies to success in the art of flirting.
2. Eye contact is king when flirting – look at her.
3. Invade her space slightly (e.g.) poke her in the ribs / tickle. (Body language is key in these flirting techniques.)
4. Touch her on upper arm when you both find something funny – releases oxytocin (love chemical).
5. Calibrate your energy level – meet high energy with high, and low energy with low.
6. Lead the conversation, control the frame. You are the man, you are in charge. If she wants it, she’s got a *big time* battle on her hands (and more the better for the sexual tension).
7. Don’t break the tension – don’t apologise, say “just kidding”, etc.
8. Look at her like she is up to no good.
9. Do the cheeky smile. Nonverbal communication is extremely powerful at generating attraction in women.

What NOT To Do:

10. Lean in to her ear. She can hear you. She will lean into you if she can’t.
11. Follow her around the bar/club.
12. Care if she walks away from you.
13. Look for her if she goes to the toilet and doesn’t come straight back to you.
14. Anything else that conveys neediness or desperation. This is one of the biggest tips on flirting *of all time*.
15. Piss her off by being genuinely obnoxious or offensive. Remain playful at all times. Her throwing a drink at you is not one of the flirting signs we are looking for here.

What To Say:

16. Fake like she is annoying you.
17. Roleplay together.
18. Take the piss out of people where you are (ethics go bye-bye :-)).
19. Dodge all of her questions.
20. Reframe her tests.
21. Make out something she did disgusted you a little bit, “Gross, you just spat on me when you said that.” – The hotter the girl, the better it works.
22. Compliment her on something non-physical. E.g. “You seem pretty confident, it’s cool.”
23. Tell her what to do: “Hold this a sec”; “Come here…”; “Look at this…”; “Let’s go over there, c’mon.”; “Check this out.” and so on. You are leading her subtly, and by following what you say, she is accepting the frame. Compliance is her subtly acknowledging you as the leader, the dominant one.
24. Any time she displays even a hint of some kind of incompetence, exaggerate it, to *the max*. If she can’t type on her phone, say something like, “My 6 year old cousin can txt better than you.” If she mumbles or makes a mistake when talking, say something like, “I didn’t know it was ‘special needs’ night tonight.” Smile when you say these things.

What NOT to say: – tired, boring, unoriginal, predictable crap…

25. Do you come here often?
26. What’s your sign?
27. Can I buy you a drink?
28. I love you.
29. Will you be my girlfriend / go out with me?
30. Would you like to dance?

And that, in a nutshell is how to get a girl by flirting with them. Outrageous.

Some of this may give you the fear. This is what we call being ‘outside your comfort zone’. The fastest way to develop and grow, is to smash through that reluctance you feel.

Once you have done the scary thing once or twice, it will be like nothing to you ever again. You’ll be like, “Pfff, piece of piss”. You can get there if you just take the plunge for those first few times.

A coward dies a thousand deaths in his mind. A hero dies only once.
-Ancient Proverb

Result: *massive* amounts of female attraction heading your way.

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Speak soon,

David Black

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  • http://www.flirt1.net Flirten

    Thank you for this great tips, i hope now it is getting easier to meet new girls.

  • Wickedaj87

    I always wondered why men think they make good flirting experts and can give awesome advice to other men, telling them what works and doesn’t. You want to know what generally works, then asking a female is your best bet….

    “24. Any time she displays even a hint of some kind of incompetence,
    exaggerate it, to *the max*. If she can’t type on her phone, say
    something like, “My 6 year old cousin can txt better than you.” If she
    mumbles or makes a mistake when talking, say something like, “I didn’t
    know it was ‘special needs’ night tonight.” Smile when you say these
    things.”
    THAT section, NO GOOD. I am a 24 year old female and I can guarantee you that any man who does this part is going to either get slapped, a drink in their face or similar. Teasing the girl works to a degree and depends on what is said, this is NOT teasing, this is making fun of her. That “special needs” part would be a LOW blow, and smiling during any of that makes it worse. All this does is make you look like a complete jackass.
    “”23. Tell her what to do: “Hold this a sec”; “Come here…”; “Look at
    this…”; “Let’s go over there, c’mon.”; “Check this out.” and so on. You
    are leading her subtly, and by following what you say, she is accepting
    the frame. Compliance is her subtly acknowledging you as the leader, the
    dominant one.”
    Once again, This part works to a certain degree if you’re careful; ORDERING her around makes you look too bossy. Yes women like a certain amount of dominance with a man but not too much. I agree, subtlety is key here. Don’t make her hold your things EVER (unless you’re dating her). Most women don’t like being treated like a door mat. The “look at this” is fine. If you’re going to try the “come here” don’t just use that try “Come here so you can see this/come here there’s more room” give her a good reason why she should come to you. Otherwise it’s going to seem like you’re trying to lead her away to kill her or something worse.

    Other than that really… most of the tips should work if executed properly. But if your goal was a nasty (and i don’t mean “i want a girl to call me daddy and spank me” nasty, I mean “I’m gonna need to see the health clinic after this” nasty) girl who’s looking for a quickie (or an alibi, hey you never know) do all the wrong things I mentioned above, they like that “I’m the biggest douche-asshole-you’ll-ever-meet” technique.

    Good pointers: Sometimes, often times rather, simple IS BEST. “Hi, I’m (Your name here). I saw you across the bar (or similar). (Give a compliment, not rude”You have HUGE boobs” or too cheesy “Did it hurt when you fell out of heaven?”). Can I buy you a drink?” The “buy you a drink” normally works after introduction, not AS the introduction. The “would you like to dance” works after you’ve chatted her up a bit (and it’s the proper location for dancing, so obviously asking in the middle of a cafe at 10am isn’t the place for that line.).

  • Nick sebastian

    Horw do u flirt with iq? This is nonvrrbal witchcraft–some ko bu xresearch, etc.

    Nivk

  • Jowan Lynch

    I understand why you’re offended but do you
    think you can help me, send me an email please jlynch600@gmail.com