Do You Want What You Haven’t Got?
I know from experience having spoken to many many guys, that everyone wants what they have not got. They feel like if they were more like “this” then they would not have a problem with women.
I work in a small group at work. In particular there are a 2 guys I speak to a lot. Both are real fun to hang with and we always chat about random shit.
The other day however we got onto meeting women. In particular we were discussing height. One of them stands at 5′5 (call him James), the other 6′1 (call him Tom).
It’s amazing that they both had completely different views on which one is the best.
James being shorter felt as though women would not like being with a man shorter than he is. Therefore he felt limited in his choice of women. He also felt that being in a club was a fruitless task because he felt like no one could really see him. He felt as though being taller would make all the difference.
Tom on the other hand had the opposite. He felt that women would be intimidated by a guy who was much taller than they were. Therefore would generally aim for taller women. He also found he felt more uneasy when dancing in a club because he feels like everyone can see him and will think he can’t dance.
Let me tell you right now. These are EXCUSES. Neither of these two are exceptionally tall or short. Trust me when the brain wants to stop you doing something it will. I am sure you have come up with a million and one reasons in the past not too approach a girl. Ranging from “I’m too tall for her” to “She probably has a boyfriend” to “I am not really in the right frame of mind” etc.
You have to realise that it does not matter if you could change who you are. Why? Because you would just find new things to worry about.
You have to learn to accept who you are. It does not matter how you look, how much money you have, your job etc. It comes down to your character. Your personality. Trust me when I say, everybody has a great character and personality. It may be hidden at the moment, but with a little bit of work on yourself you can bring it out.
Once you learn to unleash your hidden natural character/personality and you realise that women are majorly attracted to you, then all those inhibitions you had about yourself will disappear.
Catch you laters,
Preston Blain
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