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Hey guys today we have a guest post from Alex Matlock. He lives in London, UK and has a masters in Social Psychology meaning he knows better than most what goes on in that little grey matter of ours. This article is definitely worth a read and if you like it then you got to check [...]

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Hey guys, time for another great guest post. Richard Liso is a fan of developing success skills. He also writes in his personal site about dating and attraction for men. On his site you can find advice on meeting, attracting and dating women, and also download his free “Alpha Attraction” eBook. ======================================================================================== It’s a basic principle of [...]

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  Valentine’s day can be a depressing time for us guys. You see others getting all lovey-dovey; it’s enough to make you reach for a barf bag. You hate it and want it all at once. You want to have gorgeous hot women hanging on your every word. You want them vying for your attention [...]

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Do you want to know how to get a girl to go out with you? Especially that one particular girl that you really like. Getting the girl you want will require you to follow certain principles in order to be successful. In my eyes, it’s all about putting a chain reaction into action. What I [...]

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Once you start getting good with women, you might start thinking about the fact that you need to improve your skills in the bedroom antics department. Learning how to be good in bed is something that can help you to be confident when meeting women because you know you are going to rock their world [...]

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Nicknames are the hallmark of flirting. If you can call a girl a comedy name that is also accurate, she’s go weak at the knees for you. Especially if she’s really attractive and you’ve got the balls to do what other men wouldn’t dare. Here’s my top 5… 5. Missy This is a good generic [...]

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Learning how to be the bad boy seems to be a very popular subject when it comes to getting girls. Especially in today’s society where we seem to be exposed to these so called bad boy types all the the time. You see them constantly on the news, some macho, cocky, arrogant sort that seems [...]

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No I don’t mean you need someone named Will to get you the results with women that you so desperately want. Though I am sure if you know Will Smith then this might actually be true. I am talking about a key part of being good at anything. Having the will to go out and [...]

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You know that one girl? Maybe she works with you, or goes to your school. Maybe you walk or drive past her every day. Whoever she is, you’ve come here to find out how to work the magic that will convince her that you’re the most awesome guy since Justin Bieber’s better-looking cousin. You want [...]

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If you want to learn how to get a girl to chase you, there are certain methods that you can use. In order to make women chase you, instead of doing all the work, you do not need to work hard at all. You need to make a change in your thinking and behavior so [...]

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If you are looking for an effective way how to get a girl to notice you, there are many ways that you can use. Every guy out there wants to get noticed and wants to feel appreciated by other people, especially girls. If you are wondering on how a simple guy can get a girl [...]

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If you are anything like me then you have probably spent Christmas and the run up to New Year gorging on what can only be described as an abundance of delicious, sweet and damn-right irresistible meals, chocolate and other bountiful goodies the festive period has to offer. Christmas up to New Year is definitely one [...]

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Here is a list of what I consider to be 10 of the most important factors on how to get the girl you want. These are things you need to know in order to have more success when approaching women, when trying to attract women and to get a girlfriend (if so desired). Some may [...]

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Now before any smart-asses try and make me look foolish by asking the question, “How can you get girls when you are sleeping?” then hold on. I am not on about getting girls whilst you are sleeping, I am on about the importance of sleep when it comes to your ability to learn and attract [...]

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We have a new guest poster today called Christa. Christa is here to give you some very good tips on how to make out successfully, so you should definitely give this article a read. Also I don’t think we have covered this subject on Social Masters, which is another reason to give it a read. [...]

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Have you ever wondered why girls go for successful guys? Most people think it’s because they are gold-diggers and just want an easy life. However this is not why successful people are attractive to women. That’s mistaking the smoke for the fire. The real reason is that successful people have a tendency to naturally demonstrate [...]

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  Halloween is coming up and that means another great opportunity to meet women. Why is Halloween a good time to meet women? Firstly, like any celebration of the year, there are parties. Parties are always a great place to meet women. Anyone who goes to a party is going to be looking to have [...]

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When you start out meeting women there are a few things you should definitely do. Here are 10 ways to get a girl. 1) Research – Take some time to do proper research on meeting women. There are so many different methods and teachers out there that you need to know what you are letting [...]

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Hey guys I have a great post for you today. We have an article from the guys over at Meet Your Sweet who have written an article on texting. If used effectively texting can be a powerful weapon in your arsenal. Take it away… ================================================== Texting a girl can be quite daunting for most guys, [...]

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Here are some of the best places to meet women.  Let’s be honest, if you go out you can meet women pretty much anywhere. However there are certain places that you are much more likely to meet women than others. So if any of these places sound like somewhere you would wanna go, or already [...]

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A little while ago I wrote a article called: How to gain confidence around women. It tells you how to gain confidence with women so that you are able to put any techniques or principles you already know into action. However I received a question regarding the following sentence: “Confidence with women is more important [...]

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Hey guys I have another awesome guest post from Player 87. Here he explains how to build a social circle. Take it away Player 87… The author of this article, Player87, is a member of an elite team of seduction gurus known as The Inner Circle (TIC). To learn more about TIC, their amazing work [...]

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Knowing how to get a girl to like you is pretty key to becoming good with women. Obviously we are not talking about liking you as a friend cos’ that would be bad. We are talking getting a girl to like you in a “I want to have sex with you right now” sort of [...]

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Before we get started, first a little definition of focus. Focus means “to direct ones attention on something” [1]. You need focus to improve an aspect of your life. However you need to focus on the right things. You get more of what you focus on – this is such an important subject to embed [...]

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Hey guys I recently interviewed Arash Dibazar. You may have heard of Arash from the book ‘The Game’. He has a huge amount of experience with picking up women and hopefully this interview will be of benefit to you. You can check Arash’s website here: Seductive Instinct Speak soon, David Black Arash Interview Hello everybody [...]

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Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be great with women? Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be great with women at the expense of your own feelings? Sometimes I get the feeling guys are always looking for a quick fix to an area of their life that [...]

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Hey guys, Player87 has got another article for us. The author of this article, Player87, is a member of an elite team of seduction gurus known as The Inner Circle (TIC). To learn more about TIC, their amazing work with the Paragon Project, and to download their free 200+ page Crash Course in seduction Click [...]

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Are you wondering, “How can I get a girl if I lack confidence?”. Trust me this is very common. So many guys want to know how can I get girls to like me, especially if they feel like they lack the confidence to talk to women. The thing is, you need a certain amount of [...]

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Blaming other is something you probably come across quite a lot in life. You are always going to meet people who blames others for their misfortunes.  But have you ever thought about whether you do the same thing? I am not here to make you feel bad, however it’s something that needs to be said [...]

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Hey guys I have another guest post for you today. The author of this article, Player87, is a member of an elite team of seduction gurus known as The Inner Circle (TIC). To learn more about TIC, their amazing work with the Paragon Project, and to download their free 200+ page Crash Course in seduction [...]

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Have you ever considered how you value yourself? The most important opinion of yourself is from… well yourself. Yes you may have family and close friends who’s opinions you think matter and, to a certain extent, they do. They are the people who live around you everyday. They have a good idea of what you [...]

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Today we have a guest post from Tony Laroche. Take it away Tony: =========================== It seems we live in an age where learning seduction has become huge. There seems to be a whole array of products out there and more and more seem to be coming out each and everyday. With so much material out [...]

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Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be able to get women into bed without having to lie at any stage. When I first started meeting and attracting women, I felt as though the whole concept was based on lying or being deceiving to get a girl into your bed. Telling them [...]

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Every so often you hear, “Is there anyway to learn how to make a girl like you?” Firstly, don’t worry because you are not alone. I probably don’t say this enough to guys, but you are not alone when it comes to wanting to improve with women. There are so many guys want to know [...]

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Today I am going to give you my 10 favorite psychology books that have made a huge difference to the way I understand myself and others. Not just with women, but every aspect of my life from my social circle to my work and purpose for being here. So study the list, and hopefully they [...]

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Today we are going to look at the top 10 signs a girl is attracted to you. Knowing the signs that a girl likes you can help take away the fear of being rejected. It can give you an air of confidence to start a conversation and take things with the girl to the next [...]

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If you think you are the only one who feels the sort of fear that stops you doing what you really want to do then think again. Everyone feels the fear! Whether it’s the fear of: * Public speaking in front of a large crowd * Leaving your old job for a new job * [...]

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If I asked the women you know if you had good style, what would they tell me? And no, your mom doesn’t count :-) You see, style matters, but not as much as the media, fashion corporations and indeed women would have you believe… Good style gets you a foot in the door. That’s its [...]

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  I have currently been trying to find the time to write a monster article on how to learn effectively. If you know the most effective way to learn then you will learn faster and also enjoy the experience more.   However I have been trying to learn a new skill myself recently. I realised [...]

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The other day I posted an article from Ciara Shante entitled ‘Are women too emotionally scattered?’  Patrick Chase from ‘Women Chase You’ left the following comment: “EVERYONE has issues. We are all emotionally screwed up in some way. Hell, if you just accept that, you probably won’t need to do any work and you’ll have [...]

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Hey guys I have just added ‘Jargon Buster: 101 PUA Terms You Must Know To Survive‘ to the resource section. This list has what I think are 101 of the most used and need to know pieces of lingo in the community. We are not the be biggest fans of lingo here at Social Masters, [...]

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I was contacted by Ciara Shante who wanted to write a guest post for my site. I really enjoyed what she had to say and so here is the article she sent over. You can learn about women by what Ciara has to say. Enjoy… ============================================== There are numerous amounts of women out there that have [...]

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  Eva Weisberg. Sexy, intelligent, Eastern European author and dating coach. She’s the rare kind of girl that can observe and elegantly describe her own, and other womens’ behaviours and reactions when it comes to how guys act around them. And she’s just published her first book.  Check out her book here: ‘Get a Girl: [...]

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Hey guys got a serious treat for you today. Eva has taken the time to write an awesome article about girls being insecure. These are some extremely valuable insights into the way girls think about themselves. Before that though, let’s have a reminder of who Eva is:  Eva Weisberg. Sexy, intelligent, Eastern European author and [...]

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It takes hard work…                Something you don’t hear very often when it comes to meeting and attracting women is, “It takes hard work and commitment”. Quote time: “You will find the key to success under the alarm clock”. (Benjamin Franklin) Success comes from putting the time and effort into what you are trying to [...]

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Today I am going to review a new book by Eva Weisberg – ‘Get a Girl By a Girl’. Recently I had the pleasure to interview Eva which you can find here. About Eva I found Eva to be a great person to talk to. She comes across as clever, witty and she certainly knows [...]

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Hey guys. I recently interviewed Eva Weisberg the author of a new book entitled: ‘Get a Girl: By a Girl’. You will tell from this interview that Eva is a genuine woman who really wants to help you guys improve your interactions with women. Enjoy… Eva interview: Intro Hey everyone, this is David Black, and [...]

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I recently had the pleasure of reading a new book from a great new author Eva Weisberg. The book is entitled ‘Get A Girl: By A Girl’. One of the greatest things that I took from the book is women being insecure. It is something I already knew a bit about, but after reading this [...]

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Read this quote and take it on board. It might be one of the most important things you read this year: I believe that being successful means having a balance of success stories across the many areas of your life. You can’t truly be considered successful in your business life if your home life is [...]

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Once again I am referring to the book ‘Living The 80/20 Way’ by Richard Koch. Here is a quote from the book:  ‘A recent study by psychologists Diener and Seligman found that, with only one exception, everyone in their top 10 percent of extremely happy people was in a romantic relationship. Another revealing fact is [...]

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If you’ve ever been in this position you will know how horrible an experience it can be. How to get over an ex girlfriend can be really tough if you loved her.    Now you maybe considering ways to get your ex girlfriend back because you remember all of the good times. You might be [...]

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You are sat at home just passing the time. The tick of the clock rings in your ear as it counts down the minutes until it’s time to go out and meet some hot, sexy women. Normally you look forward to going out. You wanna go and meet some hot women, even if it gives [...]

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Hey guys today we have a  guest post from Cooper. This article is more for the younger guys who are worried about whether or not they are making the right choices when it comes to women. Especially when it comes to fitting in. You can read more about Cooper in the author bio at the [...]

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Creating a great first impression is one of the most important things you can do. Why? Because it is said that someone can make their mind up about you within 30 seconds of meeting you. If you give a good impression then great. However if you give off a bad impression then it takes a [...]

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This might not seem to make sense to you right now, but you need to learn to embrace your fear. What? I recently passed my motorbike test. I have wanted a motorbike for years, but let’s just say that being young, un-confident, a little stupid, and a little naive it was probably best I stayed [...]

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Have you ever been in a situation where you approached a girl and she has seemed real bitchy for no reason whatsoever? Most guys who have been in this situation take it real personally. They leave the interaction and come back and say what a total bitch she was. Don’t take it personal Allowing an [...]

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Although you don’t actually have to do all of these in one day, you could. These are 7 things that I have been doing over the last few years that have really helped me improve with women. If you can take these things on board then your ability to meet and attract women will skyrocket. [...]

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Just about every guy wants to be good with women. We all want to feel their soft touch on our body. However to be good with women you don’t have to be perfect. In fact you can be far from perfect and still be very successful. Perfectionism Here is a quote from Wikipedia: “Perfectionism, in [...]

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Women love a guy that can make them laugh. You don’t need to be an awesome, top level comedian, just funny enough to make them giggle. Having the ability to make women laugh is one of the keystones of being an attractive man. The Biggest Mistake There is one major pitfall that I want you [...]

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I am sure you have heard the expression “When life hands you a lemon, make lemonade”. Being positive about what you have got and making the most of it can be a real help to achieving success. 2 ways to look at it Imagine now that someone has handed you the lemon. You could just [...]

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Knowing how to get a girl to fancy you can make your life a lot easier. If a girl already fancies you a bit then it’s going to be much less effort to get their phone number, get off with them, have sex with them, etc. But how do you get a girl to fancy [...]

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  If you are struggling with women and have decided to do something about it, great. The fact that you are reading this article means you’ve come to the right place.You should definitely check out ‘How to attract girls’ if you are new to learning how to get a girl. Already on the journey However [...]

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This has got to be one of the best concepts I have comes across in recent times. If you have never heard of it then you are in for a treat. What is the 80/20 rule? Whenever you do anything in life there is always a way of getting it done simpler with less effort. [...]

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Recently I have been reading a lot of the articles over at Honey and Lance. They currently have a theme going with their articles focusing on inspiration. I highly recommend giving their site a visit as there are some really good articles that you should definitely read. One of the ones that caught my eye [...]

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If you have only recently started reading my blog, you may have missed the start of my new weekly series which is all about psychology. Therefore I wanted those who might have missed the start to have the chance to catch up a little. It’s crazy to see there are 17 articles here. It only [...]

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When you set yourself a goal you got to keep your eye on the ball. Whenever you find yourself in a situation where you lose focus on that target, you start to see all the obstacles that are stopping you from achieving your goals. Here is a great quote: “Obstacles are those frightful things you [...]

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Hey guys, being good in bed is important. It’s not a necessity but can help to improve your relationship with a girl (be it your girlfriend or someone you just met) in a big way. If you have read ‘Who Is Preston Blain?’ you will know I lost my virginity with an escort. I explained [...]

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Hey guys, I have got a sneak peak into ‘Radical Inner Game’ the brain child of Tony Laroche. Before you consider delving into the course, I thought you might like a sneak peak at what the course is all about. Watch out for the slightly unusual voice :-) Check out the video below and see [...]

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I wasn’t going to post an article today. However I remembered something that I quickly wanted to share with you. I was in the gym the other day when a guy came out with the following: “I would pay them more money a month if they would buy some new CDs” Very simple and nothing [...]

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Hey guys, I’ve got an interesting review for you today. One of my ‘disciples’, Steve, was struggling massively with inner game and agreed to take part in a crazy experiment. We agreed that he would listen to hypnotic reprogramming every day for several weeks (which turned into several months) and see what happened. All the [...]

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Imagine knowing that you could not fail. Imagine what you would do? Imagine what you could achieve? Here is a great quote: “What would you attempt to do if you knew you would not fail?“ (Robert Schuller) What an amazing thought to have. The ability to try anything you want without the fear of failure. [...]

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A self-fulfilling prophecy, also known as the ‘Pygmalion effect’, is something that could have a huge bearing on your life. It goes like this: What you believe to be true in your mind will tend to become true in real life. Whether or not they are good things or bad things, it really doesn’t matter. [...]

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Today I’m going to share with you another of my ‘secret weapon’ tools for getting women in your life. It might be a bit of a challenge to see the connection at first but stick with it and all will become clear as we traverse the landscape of being ‘radically honest’. This concept comes from [...]

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All guys want to know is how to get a girl to like you. Whether that is because you want to find a girlfriend or whatever, you must understand you can’t force a girl to like you. There are no magic pills you can swallow and no crazy formulas that you can follow to make [...]

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Every so often I check out Roosh V’s blog because the guy comes up with some excellent insights. Some of it is repetition of principles and ideas I always love reading about, and others are new concepts that make me think, “Maybe I should be doing that”. Today’s post is about an article of Roosh’s [...]

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Is there a magic pill that will get a girl to fall in love with you?   Short Answer: No Why? Because you can’t control how someone else feels about you just like that. There is no quick trick, devious method or anything else that can make a woman fall in love with you in [...]

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Although this is something that is usually associated with celebrities the principal can be applied to having sudden and significant success meeting and attracting women, or any area of life. What is ‘Paradise Syndrome’ It is something that can affect celebrities that have a quick rise to fame. One minute they are like everyone else [...]

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  I have been looking over the stats and have come up with the most popular articles in 2010. If you have a bit of spare time, I suggest you take a read of these posts and see what all the fuss was about, enjoy… # 1 – 101 Ways how to get a girlPretty [...]

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Hey guys got a special treat for you today. Jordann Harbinger from over at the Art Of Charm has taken time out of his busy schedule to bring you this great article about using text messages effectively. Jordan has a lot of knowledge in this field and the advice he gives is spot on. Text [...]

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If you can ask good questions, you can have anything you want in life. Bold claim isn’t it? But what if I told you that every monumental success started with a powerful question. How can we get men to the moon? How can I win Olympic gold? How can I date a playboy model? Here’s [...]

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What is empathy? Empathy is the skill of understanding what another person is going through. How they are feeling based on what is happening to them. It’s putting their feelings before your own in an interaction. I call it the ‘master skill’ to try and get across the importance of doing this when interacting with [...]

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Eva Weisberg. Sexy, intelligent, Eastern European author and dating coach. She’s the rare kind of girl that can observe and elegantly describe her own, and other womens’ behaviours and reactions when it comes to how guys act around them. And she’s just published her first book. Check out her website here: Dream Life Books Today’s article [...]

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Allow me to introduce our newest guest poster, Eva Weisberg. Sexy, intelligent, Eastern European author and dating coach. She’s the rare kind of girl that can observe and elegantly describe her own, and other womens’ behaviours and reactions when it comes to how guys act around them. And she’s just published her first book. Check [...]

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A couple weeks ago you might have read Tuesday’s Psychology Session – Psycho Cybernetics and come across the name Maxwell Maltz. Today we are gonna look at a particular discovery that Maxwell made. Firstly who is Maxwell Maltz In the 60s and 70s Maxwell Maltz was a renowned plastic surgeon. It was the early 70s [...]

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  What I hear you cry? How to be a bad boy like Adrien Brody? Surely I’m taking the piss? Although Adrien Brody has starred in a number of different styles of films, if you are honest, you would not associate Adrien Brody as a bad boy. Having starred in films like * The Pianist* [...]

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Today you are going to learn body language to attract women. Recently I wrote an article called ‘Bad Ass Surgeon’ which shows the huge benefit of having good body language. You should check it out and you’ll see an example of why body language is so important. But for those of you in a rush [...]

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You see this phrase banded about all over the place these days – emotional intelligence. Lots of people seem to use it, but few really know what it means, or how to be ‘emotionally intelligent’ themselves. That’s what we’re going to cover today. You may have seen the book Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman in [...]

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The other day my girlfriend went in for surgery. Luckily it was just a minor operation and everything went well. Anyways… Whilst in the hospital waiting for her to go in for surgery we were sat in a little waiting area. It was kinda surreal because it was a mobile unit and felt as though [...]

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Imagine your life is a heat-seeking missile. You have a target, that you are hurtling towards at speed. That’s all you care about – hitting that target. Every now and then you compare where you are in your trajectory with where you should be, and if you are heading off-course, you make a slight correction. [...]

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Just want to wish you all a very happy New Year. The good thing about the New Year is it gives you a great chance to set yourself some New goals. Make sure you check out: ‘It’s a New Year so set some new goals’ Take the time to set yourself some new goals and [...]

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It’s getting very close to the New Year and it’s time to look at what you are going to achieve in 2011. Now personally I am not the biggest fan of New Year resolutions because I feel that you should never wait for a specific day to start improving yourself. For example people who say [...]

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Your emotional state can have a huge bearing on your success. However I never realised just how much it actually affected your life on a grand scale until quite recently. I always assumed that ‘emotional state’ was some kind of ‘event’ that happened a few times a day. You know, when something good or bad [...]

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  The other day I posted a guest post from Thugpoet called ‘Compliance such an important factor’. I also did an interview with Thugpoet. A quick Q&A session where I answered the questions in great depth and I feel as though you can learn a lot about me from the answers. Check out the interview [...]

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I was over at David Wygant’s website when I read his article: ‘Do You Believe In Santa Claus?’ He said about using a Christmas themed opener. So I have written this article with a few more festive openers you can use over Christmas. Here’s some advice you won’t find this in any Christmas cracker this [...]

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You might have heard of reframing before. If you haven’t, you’re in for a treat. Reframing is one of the ‘core skills’, not just in meeting women, but in getting what you want out of life in general. If you’re looking for a great book on the subject, then check out Sleight of Mouth by [...]

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This week, we have a special treat. Thug Poet from Thugpoet.com has taken the time to write an article for our site. His company teaches guys to meet, attract and seduce beautiful women. Today he talks about compliance. Enjoy, David. ================================== Compliance: To measure the willingness a girl has to do something with you or [...]

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Have you ever wondered why some people are better at something than you are? I know I have. I watch YouTube videos on a regular basis and many times I have seen people do crazy feats and thought, “I would love to do that”. As I got older I realised that I could do most [...]

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If you are going to learn about different parts of psychology and how it can help you improve with women, then I think it’s best to get a basic understanding of what it actually entails. It can be defined in many ways. I think this is probably the best way to describe it in one [...]

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The festive season is upon us once again. Parties, festivities and gift-giving all combine to make the perfect-storm of social events for meeting women. Here’s my top five list on ways to meet the perfect girl for you this Christmas season… 5. House parties The party season means more parties (no duh right). House parties [...]

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New series alert… Psychology Sunday is here to help you get more of an understanding of some of the psychological aspects of the human mind. It will be focused towards meeting and attracting women, as well as general psychology, that will help you to improve as an individual. Improving with women sometimes happens just from [...]

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I know some of you clicked on the ‘Famous Quotes’ link only to find a page that says “Coming soon…” Just to let you know that I have just updated the page and it now has a handful of quotes on it. Each one being a link to an article with the quote being used [...]

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We all have secrets. These sort of secrets are normally ones that you would rather take to your grave. That’s exactly how I felt. However, I am going to share with you everything from my life in terms of my interactions with women. There is one thing here that I have only told two people [...]

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Ok guys this is my Adonis Effect review which is the workout program from Brad Howard to get you the perfect body shape that will drive women wild. Though let me re-assure you right now, this is not your typical workout product review. You know the ones I mean: “Look at me, I was skinny [...]

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Episode 3 is a little late. This was more because of logistical issues rather than lack of wanting to do it. However here is the video showing you what I have achieved this month and a bit (damn you dsa :-). Enjoy and make sure you learn a new skill this month or at least [...]

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If you’ve ever wondered how you could find the time to travel the globe, meet exotic foreign women, and have a bunch of awesome stories to tell your mates, then you might want to take a look at the latest article on my blog, written by a friend of mine Steve Scott, who is somewhat [...]

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The world has changed, have you been left behind? Society, glossy magazines, the Internet – all of these have combined to give women an unprecedented level of power and choice never before seen in the history of the human race. Women are pickier than ever. Competition between males for their attention is fiercer than ever. [...]

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Have you ever felt like you needed to know every possible reaction to every possible scenario when it comes to approaching women and attracting women. Yeah? Well you’re not the only one. It a man thing that we play out the options in our head constantly before taking action. Well, this is a bit of [...]

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Online dating tips for men is becoming much more mainstream these days. The Internet has become the new way to communicate in all aspects of your life, including dating. So here is some dating tips for men to help you achieve the results you want when it comes to meeting women online. 1) Being honest It [...]

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Just a little post to let you know about me and Preston’s big ass blog list. Check it out here: PUA Blogs Yes I know what you are thinking, why would I tell you to check out other blogs when you are reading the best one already ;-) Well because I know that knowledge is [...]

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You might already know I’m a big movie buff. I’ve taken my near-encyclopaedic knowledge (yeah right) and written you a blog post about some of the greatest film characters who are awesome with women. The great thing is, you now have an obligation to sit down and watch these great films, not only cos’ they [...]

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The second video in the series showing you that if you make better use of your time you can improve your skill set and become more attractive to women. Here I tell you how I am getting on learning the guitar and what I am going to do next. Remember you can follow suit and [...]

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Accidentally approaching a girl who already has a boyfriend can be easily done. Knowing how to get a girl who has a boyfriend isn’t always so easy :-) Picture this: You just happen to notice her form across the bar, walk up to her and start chatting away. You start thinking the two of you [...]

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There are certain things that us guys don’t want to hear in bed. The dreaded “Is it in yet?” springs to mind. However us guys are not the only ones who can be hurt by a tounge that has been let loose without due care. There are certain things that you should not say to [...]

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Lots of guys want to know how to get a girl to dance with you. This article is going to cover the problem of getting women to dance with you who are already on the dance floor without having to learn to club dance amazingly. Though learning how to dance won’t hurt, it’s not a [...]

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Picture this scenario… You meet a girl, you hit it off big-time and end up going back to hers. You sleep together. Next morning you chat for a bit and then leave. Three days later she sends you a text, something like, “Hi, the other night was fun…” Everything seems hunky-dory right? WRONG! What seems [...]

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I am sure at some point you have wondered “Why don’t women want to go out with you?” or talk to you for that matter :-). But does this mean you are not naturally attractive? We have all been there and I am sure like me you have questioned whether or not you are an [...]

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This is just a short video to hopefully make you realise that your time is valuable and that you should make the most of it. Make sure you watch the whole video so that you know what I am going to be doing over the next few months. You may even want to give it [...]

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        … So, you want tips? I got more tips than your body has room for right here. Here’s 101 ways how to get a girl… Get some style 1. Get a decent haircut. One that suits you and makes you feel more comfortable. 2. Ensure your facial hair is under control, [...]

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Have you ever wondered how not to get a girl. The other day Marni from over at Wing Girl Method wrote a guest post for us entitled ‘what turns women on‘. She explains 6 points that turn women off, meaning that if you do their exact opposite, you will attract more women. The article gave [...]

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Apologies now if you are not a fan of football (or soccer as the Americans call it), but there is no way I can go through the whole World Cup without any articles related to the world cup. It just has to be done. Now if you didn’t see it, Rob Green let in an [...]

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This week, we have a special treat. A good friend of ours, Marni from Wing Girl Method has kindly written an article for our little site. It’s great to hear a female point of view on things, and Marni has some unique insights I know you’ll get a lot out of. Enjoy, David. ========================== Ahhh [...]

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This is a follow up article to ‘Is Porn causing you Social Anxiety?‘. If you haven’t read it and are not sure what’s going on then give it a read and then head back here. If you do know what this is all about then carry on reading… Well I am gonna do something here [...]

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Hey there guys, just spent the day trying to make sure our pick up artist forum list is bang up to date. I have added 4 forums to the PUA Forum list: Arizona PUA Forum – This particular forum concentrates on PUA’s in Arizona funnily enough :-). Good place to share tips and advice as [...]

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Many guys want to learn how to become successful with women. The thing is, do you really know who you want to become to achieve this? When you learn how to meet and attract women you know what you are getting. You are getting the skills to get women attracted to you and then either [...]

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How to demonstrate value? Let’s answer that in a bit. Instead let’s first answer the question why is it important to demonstrate high value? Women want to be with someone who provides the best opportunity for survival and reproduction (i.e. having kids). Guys with high value show these qualities. Back in caveman day the alpha [...]

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When it comes to sex in a relationship things are not always straight forward. Obviously guys want to have sex but things don’t always work out like that. Most women want to have sex. I can’t say all women because not all women do. Just like not all women like shopping or going night clubbing. [...]

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I bet you’ve been in this position: You want to talk to a hot girl but just can’t seem to do it. We’ve all been there: You see a really hot sexy girl and your mouth dries up, your stomach twisted in knots. When I had no confidence with women, I would just look, stare, [...]

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Many guys tend to struggle when thinking, how to get a girl to trust you?. There are a few reasons why guys always find this particular aspect difficult. Past experiences can become a barrier when attempting to get a girl’s trust. For example, if the girl has been previously in a long term relationship, there [...]

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Today we publish our 100th blog post. And to celebrate that fact, in true Strongbad style, I’ve decided to answer 100 of your emails. Ready, go… Email #1: “Dear David, there is this girl at my school, how do I talk to her? Thanks, Jim” My reply: Jim, go up to this girl and say, [...]

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When it comes to how to get women most guys out there are always looking for new, awesome, totally life changing tips to help them improve with women. However I am shocked at the amount of guys out there who seem to neglect the absolute basics. As with anything in life, if you can get [...]

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Who doesn’t like beating off; choking the chicken; bashing the bishop; rubbing one out, right? All the visual debauchery we could ever need is only a web search away. The wonders of modern like, eh? But what if I told you there could be a sinister dark-side to porn and masturbation, one that may be [...]

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I was over at Bobby Rio’s blog ‘How To Make Small Talk Sexy’ and started reading a post about avoiding awkward silences. Check it out here: Tip for Avoiding Awkward Silences This has to be one of the biggest fears for a lot of guys. If you don’t know what to say then it can [...]

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Do girls play hard to get? The simplest answer is yes girls do play hard to get, just like most men do! But have you ever considered why girls play hard to get? If you are reading this article, you probably may have met a few girls who have played hard to get around you [...]

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Today I want to look at the main reasons why guys seem to suffer with fear of using the phone. This costs a lot of guys a lot of second dates so pay attention. The phone should be something we embrace. We use it in everyday life and therefore we need to make sure that [...]

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Hello to you all. Just thought I would give you a little update on what I have been upto the last couple of days. Well I have been trawling the internet looking for the best PUA Blogs out there to add to my current best PUA blogs list. I am quite happy to share other [...]

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As with anything in life, you need to learn how to be good with women. I don’t really believe in the term ‘Natural’ when you talk about someone being a true natural. Guys who seem to be naturally good with women have most likely been bought up around guys who are good with women. They [...]

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Many guys want to know how to get an older woman. The reasons why some guys may desire to date a more mature woman varies from person to person. Because of their age, it’s a common stereotype that older women are seen as more wiser and self-assured compared to younger girls; as well as have [...]

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The question everyone wants to know is how to become the bad boy women love, without being a complete and utter tw*t. You can become a bad boy without having to change into someone who you despise. Come on, you must have watched a bad boy in action and thought, “Man I wish I was [...]

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The other day I posted an article about how to talk to women on the phone, which I highly recommend you read. I shared some of my thoughts on using the phone. I mentioned how, as children, we don’t suffer from any fear towards the phone. However, as we get older we seem to develop [...]

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Have you ever had that horrible, pit-of-the-stomach-churning feeling when you go to call and talk to women on the phone? Or maybe you get a phone call and you see it’s the number of the girl you met the other night. You are not alone. Here’s the interesting thing though: Think back to when you [...]

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Are girls intimidated by good looking guys? In the past, I have had guys who have said to me “I feel like girls are intimidated by me because I am good looking”. This made me wonder are girls intimidated by hot guys or does it not really matter? Lets take a look… One common stereotype [...]

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You may well have noticed the seemingly relentless growth in the ‘how to teach men to pick up women’ market over the last several years. A complete guru overload. It seems like everyone and his brother is throwing together a website vying for your attention, and your hard-earned cash in exchange for the latest ‘hidden [...]

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  Have you ever wondered how to get a shy girl to talk to you. After reading ‘How to get a shy girl to open up to you’ over at Girls ask Guys I decided to add my own 2 cents to this question. The first thing I want you to do is answer the [...]

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When it comes to the qualities that attract girls there are 4 main qualities that you need to demonstrate in order to attract girls. David looked at these in his article how to attract girls, however cause they are so important I thought I would reiterate them. So when it comes to attracting girls you [...]

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I read an interesting article by Roosh V which I recommend you check out entitled ‘Just Keep Going‘. This made me think of a particular Quote that has always stuck in my mind: “Success is the ability to go from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm” (Winston Churchill) What we need to realise is [...]

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Hey guys, David here. I was just looking back through some of my posts for 2009 and thought it would be a nice to give you a list of the 5 best articles to read. So if you pick just a hand full of my posts to read then choose these, Social Masters best of [...]

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[Note from David B. :- As it's Valentines coming up, we got a genuine, certified *girl* to write a guest article about it. Thought it would be good to get things from a female point of view. Preston found Tash in the nearby enchanted forest (so he tells me, personally I think he's on drugs), [...]

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Have you ever needed to know how to get a girl off your mind? Maybe you fancied a girl for ages but she fancied someone else? Perhaps you fancied a girl who was with another guy? Or maybe your girlfriend has split up with you and you can’t get her out of your head? There [...]

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I get asked the question: how to get a girl interested in you? a lot. Have you ever heard the comment ‘Just be yourself’? This is a very cliched expression and a lot of so called ‘Gurus’ tell you that the best way how to get a girl interested in you is by being someone [...]

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Just a short post today to let you know about my PUA Blog list. If you have not already seen it then check it out here: PUA Blogs It is a list of all the top PUA blogs being run at the moment. Some by pick up artists like Badboy PUA, Thundercat PUA, Neil Strauss [...]

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Hey guys the other day David said about why you can’t do a list of ‘The Top 10 Best Pick up artist’. If you missed it check it out here: Not Another Best PUA List The only important thing is to find somebody that you can learn off effectively and that will help you achieve [...]

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Ever notice how all the ‘how to get girls’ stuff out there is essentially the same rehashed stuff? If you’re like me, you’re totally jaded about this and want something fresh, something new. And something that is thermo-nuclear-powerful in getting women attracted to you, that ain’t just more boring flirting tips. Am I close? Well, [...]

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This is one of the biggest dating secrets out there. You won’t read this in magazines, or in books. It hits too close to home for that. But that’s what we’re here for, right? To give you the down-and-dirty stuff that other people are too afraid to say. Stuff that will lift the wool from [...]

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We have already written articles on getting a Black girlfriend and Asian girlfriend. I thought I should write article on how to get a latina girlfriend just to cover another hotly desired group of women. If you want your girlfriend to be latina then I am sure you are not alone. Latin women are well [...]

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You already know how to talk to girls, you just don’t realise it yet. In this post, I’m gonna awaken your inner conversational flow, and help you have interesting, funny conversations with women in a way that increases their attraction to you. I believe that everyone can do this given the right framework and these [...]

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When attracting girls things are not always what they seem. Have you ever seen a hot girl with a not so hot guy but who has a lot of money? I am sure we have all seen that situation. What was your first thought? Was it: ‘That guy must be really awesome to have a [...]

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When is comes to meeting women there is a lot of talk about picking up women in pubs and night clubs. This is great for one night stands and occasionally a relationship. But some guys want to know how to find a girlfriend. If you are looking for a girlfriend you are better off going [...]

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Many men want to know how to get an asian girlfriend. Asian women have such a huge appeal to men. To many men there is nothing better than a beautiful asian women. They are petitie, sexy, exotic, cute, etc. There is just something about asian girls that men find very attractive and is the reason [...]

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Following on from one of David’s most recent articles, ‘You Are Already Naturally Attractive To Women‘, I wanted to make a point about being ‘good with women’. Through out your life you must have seen guys out there who are good with women. We have all seen them. They are good with young women or [...]

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Yeah, you read that right. You are already naturally attractive to women, and I can prove it. “What the hell?” I hear you say, “Where the fuck are they all then?” This is what I’ve been beavering away at for the past few months. See I believe (and has been proven to me many times [...]

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My main man David Black is still working away to bring you what will hopefully be content that will seriously help your interactions with women. I have never known him to work so hard on one piece of content. I am sure you know that he likes the easy life, so with this much effort [...]

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Was just reading great article over at ‘Attract Women Anywhere’ blog about pushing through your comfort zone. Worth checking it out: Being Comfortable vs. Pushing your Comfort Zone? Oyyy, what to do! You need to push outside your comfort zone in order to become more confident in social situations. It is something I feel should [...]

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I know from experience having spoken to many many guys, that everyone wants what they have not got. They feel like if they were more like “this” then they would not have a problem with women. I work in a small group at work. In particular there are a 2 guys I speak to a [...]

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Firstly lets get this straight. There are no rules to when you should call. Some people call the next day after getting the number and have great success, others leave it 2-3 days and get the same results. It really comes down to personal preference. I just want to share my thoughts on the subject [...]

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Let’s talk about how to get a black girlfriend. The universal appeal of curvaceous, big-bootayed, exotic black women is something many men can identify with. Now its time for *you* to get a bit of colour in your life. Read on to find out how… First thing to get down is this: All women are [...]

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