Not Another Best PUA List
I was just reading an article over at PUA Gathering called ‘Top 10 Reasons why top 10 Pickup Artists lists suck‘ and I could not agree more.
How do you define a pickup artist, let alone the best PUA? My biggest gripe is that everybody has different wants and goals in life and this includes learning how to pick up girls.
Some guys want to learn how to attract women quickly in order to sleep with as many women as humanly possible, which is fine if that’s what you want. Others want to approach women and try to find a girlfriend. The whole ‘I wanna sleep with shed loads of women’ does not appeal to them. So depending on which one you want effects your opinion of who is the best pick up artist.
Also everybody who is in the industry wants to come up with their own Top 10 Lists. So you can have 10 different lists, all of which are completely different because the person putting the list together has a different opinion on who is the best.
The are so many pick up artists ranging from Erik Von Markovik, Neil Strauss, bad boy pua, Ross Jeffries, etc.
So how do you decide who is the best PUA?
Simple answer is YOU CAN’T!
And let’s be honest. Does it really matter who is the best? When it comes down to the nitty gritty, the whole point of these guys is to help you become better at picking up girls for the reasons you as an individual want. That’s it. Do you really care if the guy you learnt off is ranked ‘number 100′ if he has helped you achieve your goals with women this year? If you wanted to learn how to pick up women, does it really matter which pickup artist taught you as long as you achieved your goal.
At the end of the day, if these guys really care about helping you to meet more women then they won’t give a shit if they are in a top 10 list or not. My guess is that none of them really do give a shit. Yeah they probably get a bit of a buzz out of getting into a top 10 list (who wouldn’t) but I am sure they much prefer getting emails off guys who lives that have helped change for the better.
The main thing to remember is to find somebody whose teaching style you find best suits your personality and who has the same outlook as you. Then do what the hell they tell you and you will definitely become better with women. The best PUA is the one that suits your needs best.
Speak soon,
David Black
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