How To Find The Best Pick up Artist For You!

Hey guys the other day David said about why you can’t do a list of ‘The Top 10 Best Pick up artist’.

If you missed it check it out here: Not Another Best PUA List

The only important thing is to find somebody that you can learn off effectively and that will help you achieve your goals. Whether you wanna be a pickup artist and meet loads of women or whether you want to get a girlfriend, learning off Neil Strauss (Annihilation Method) or Mystery (The Mystery Method) is completely different to learning off mine and David’s good friends Carlos Xuma (Alpha Male).

With so many teachers out there, how do you find the right teacher for you. Personally I recommend David Black, but I am biased :-). Seriously though, best thing is to follow these simple tips to find the best pick up artist for you:

They have the same values as you. Learning off some one who believes in the same things as you will make a massive difference to how well you learn. If you feel like you have a connection with this person, then you are more likely to listen and take in what they have to say.

They are teaching what you as an individual want to learn. If you want to learn how to go out and get same night lays then pick someone who teaches this. If you want to get a girlfriend then pick a teacher who teaches this. Whatever your needs, find someone who fits the bill.

There teaching style suits your personality. Even if someone is teaching you exactly what you want, but you hate the way they teach then find someone else. If their method of teaching does not suit your personality then you will not learn as effectively.

They have a good reputation. Not the most crucial point as there are some excellent teachers out there who are not well known at all. All I am saying is be careful. The majority of guys I know are in it because they want to teach guys how to pick up women. They genuinely get a buzz out of helping guys approach women, attract women and date women. However some of them just want to make money. So like I said, be careful.

The thing to remember is to take your time. Find somebody who fits the above criteria and you will find that your success with women happens a lot sooner. The best pick up artist is the one who suits your needs best, not the one who featured in the top 10 pickup artists of the year.

Catch ya laters,
Preston Blain

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Nick Taylor

I started off with The Mystery Method and I've also read Neil Strauss' book. However, now I am more into the natural stuff like Carlos Xuma & David Black.

David Black

Hey Nick thanks for the vote of confidence :-)

I too started with routine based methods. I got so bored with doing the same stuff over and over again that I decided enough was enough.

This is why I moved onto just being a naturally attractive guy. So much simpler and enjoyable.

Mike Jones

I like Mystery method. I begin with David D, but I have a squared mind, so I feel that David teaches were incomplete for me. Mystery focus on every part of the game.

PUAhub

More importantly, stick to one! Don't continually change methods until you can adleast master some of the core concepts of one.

Preston

Great point. Once you have done your homework and found somone who you feel is the right teacher for you, stick with them.

Learning loads of methods can cloud your mind. Different teachers have different methods for handling certain situations. If you got 3-4 different ways to handle one situation, which one would you choose?

The old expression 'Jack of all trades, masters of none' springs to mind. So once you have found the right teacher, dedicate your time to them. Give their methods a fair chance. If it don't work for you straight away then don't do the easy option of changing method. You need to give it a good go. It takes time and hard work to improve at anything in life.

If after giving someone's method a fair chance, you still don't feel like you are improving then by all means try someone else. Just remember to stick to one teacher at a time.

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