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Accidentally approaching a girl who already has a boyfriend can be easily done. Knowing how to get a girl who has a boyfriend isn’t always so easy :-)
Picture this: You just happen to notice her form across the bar, walk up to her and start chatting away. You start thinking the [...]

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There are certain things that us guys don’t want to hear in bed. The dreaded “Is it in yet?” springs to mind. However us guys are not the only ones who can be hurt by a tounge that has been let loose without due care. There are certain things that you should [...]

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Lots of guys want to know how to get a girl to dance with you. This article is going to cover the problem of getting women to dance with you who are already on the dance floor without having to learn to club dance amazingly. Though learning how to dance won’t hurt, it’s not a [...]

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Picture this scenario…
You meet a girl, you hit it off big-time and end up going back to hers. You sleep together. Next morning you chat for a bit and then leave. Three days later she sends you a text, something like, “Hi, the other night was fun…”
Everything seems hunky-dory right?
WRONG!
What seems like a friendly and [...]

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I am sure at some point you have wondered “Why don’t women want to go out with you?” or talk to you for that matter :-).
But does this mean you are not naturally attractive?
We have all been there and I am sure like me you have questioned whether or not you are an attractive man.
Personally [...]

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This is just a short video to hopefully make you realise that your time is valuable and that you should make the most of it.

Make sure you watch the whole video so that you know what I am going to be doing over the next few months. You may even want to give it a [...]

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So, you want tips? I got more tips than your body has room for right here. Here’s 101 ways how to get a girl…
Get some style
1. Get a decent haircut. One that suits you and makes you feel more comfortable.
2. Ensure your facial hair is under control, including eyebrows, beard, mustache, etc.
3. Wear clothes [...]

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Have you ever wondered how not to get a girl. The other day Marni from over at Wing Girl Method wrote a guest post for us entitled ‘what turns women on‘. She explains 6 points that turn women off, meaning that if you do their exact opposite, you will attract more women.
The article gave me [...]

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Apologies now if you are not a fan of football (or soccer as the Americans call it), but there is no way I can go through the whole World Cup without any articles related to the world cup. It just has to be done.
Now if you didn’t see it, Rob Green let in an absolute [...]

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This week, we have a special treat. A good friend of ours, Marni from Wing Girl Method has kindly written an article for our little site. It’s great to hear a female point of view on things, and Marni has some unique insights I know you’ll get a lot out of. Enjoy, David.
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Ahhh the age [...]

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This is a follow up article to ‘Is Porn causing you Social Anxiety?‘. If you haven’t read it and are not sure what’s going on then give it a read and then head back here. If you do know what this is all about then carry on reading…
Well I am gonna do something here that [...]

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Hey there guys, just spent the day trying to make sure our pick up artist forum list is bang up to date.
I have added 4 forums to the PUA Forum list:
Arizona PUA Forum – This particular forum concentrates on PUA’s in Arizona funnily enough :-). Good place to share tips and advice as well as [...]

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Many guys want to learn how to become successful with women. The thing is, do you really know who you want to become to achieve this?
When you learn how to meet and attract women you know what you are getting. You are getting the skills to get women attracted to you and then either get [...]

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How to demonstrate value? Let’s answer that in a bit. Instead let’s first answer the question why is it important to demonstrate high value? Women want to be with someone who provides the best opportunity for survival and reproduction (i.e. having kids). Guys with high value show these qualities.
Back in caveman day the alpha male [...]

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When it comes to sex in a relationship things are not always straight forward. Obviously guys want to have sex but things don’t always work out like that.
Most women want to have sex. I can’t say all women because not all women do. Just like not all women like shopping or going night clubbing. At [...]

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I bet you’ve been in this position: You want to talk to a hot girl but just can’t seem to do it. We’ve all been there: You see a really hot sexy girl and your mouth dries up, your stomach twisted in knots.
When I had no confidence with women, I would just look, stare, hang [...]

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Many guys tend to struggle when thinking, how to get a girl to trust you?. There are a few reasons why guys always find this particular aspect difficult.
Past experiences can become a barrier when attempting to get a girl’s trust. For example, if the girl has been previously in a long term [...]

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Today we publish our 100th blog post. And to celebrate that fact, in true Strongbad style, I’ve decided to answer 100 of your emails.
Ready, go…
Email #1:
“Dear David, there is this girl at my school, how do I talk to her? Thanks, Jim”
My reply: Jim, go up to this girl and say, “Hi.” Then relax and [...]

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When it comes to how to get women most guys out there are always looking for new, awesome, totally life changing tips to help them improve with women. However I am shocked at the amount of guys out there who seem to neglect the absolute basics. As with anything in life, if you can get [...]

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Who doesn’t like beating off; choking the chicken; bashing the bishop; rubbing one out, right? All the visual debauchery we could ever need is only a web search away. The wonders of modern like, eh?
But what if I told you there could be a sinister dark-side to porn and masturbation, one that may be ruining [...]

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I was over at Bobby Rio’s blog ‘How To Make Small Talk Sexy’ and started reading a post about avoiding awkward silences. Check it out here: Tip for Avoiding Awkward Silences
This has to be one of the biggest fears for a lot of guys. If you don’t know what to say then [...]

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You have probably already read the article how to get an older woman. Hopefully you have succeeded in that task of meeting an older woman and now have a hot older woman on your arm. Now you need to know how to date an older woman so that you can keep her.
Dating older women is [...]

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Do girls play hard to get? The simplest answer is yes girls do play hard to get, just like most men do! But have you ever considered why girls play hard to get?
If you are reading this article, you probably may have met a few girls who have played hard to get [...]

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Today I want to look at the main reasons why guys seem to suffer with fear of using the phone. This costs a lot of guys a lot of second dates so pay attention.
The phone should be something we embrace. We use it in everyday life and therefore we need to [...]

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Hello to you all. Just thought I would give you a little update on what I have been upto the last couple of days. Well I have been trawling the internet looking for the best PUA Blogs out there to add to my current best PUA blogs list.

I am quite happy [...]

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As with anything in life, you need to learn how to be good with women. I don’t really believe in the term ‘Natural’ when you talk about someone being a true natural. Guys who seem to be naturally good with women have most likely been bought up around guys who are good [...]

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Many guys want to know how to get an older woman. The reasons why some guys may desire to date a more mature woman varies from person to person. Because of their age, it’s a common stereotype that older women are seen as more wiser and self-assured compared to younger girls; as [...]

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Do you wanna attract the girls you want? Of course you do.
We all know that the pick up world is pretty much divided into 2 sections. The first is ‘Natural Game’ and the second is ‘Routine Based Stuff’. Both proven to be successful when learning how to attract a girl.
Which one [...]

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Here is a list of the top 10 really bad love songs to sing to any girl ever. Listening to love songs is one thing but singing them is another matter. Yeah some of these maybe considered great love songs. They may even be considered some of the greatest love songs of all time.  [...]

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Hey guys thought I would just share with you a few articles I think you should checkout.
The Dark Side Of Travelling: Roosh V shares the dark side to travelling. Though it isn’t about teaching guys how to meet women, it’s a really enjoyable read. If you have a sense of [...]

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The question everyone wants to know is how to become the bad boy women love, without being a complete and utter tw*t. You can become a bad boy without having to change into someone who you despise. Come on, you must have watched a bad boy in action and thought, “Man I wish I was [...]

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The other day I posted an article about how to talk to women on the phone, which I highly recommend you read. I shared some of my thoughts on using the phone. I mentioned how, as children, we don’t suffer from any fear towards the phone. However, as we get older we seem to develop [...]

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Have you ever had that horrible, pit-of-the-stomach-churning feeling when you go to call and talk to women on the phone? Or maybe you get a phone call and you see it’s the number of the girl you met the other night. You are not alone.
Here’s the interesting thing though: Think back [...]

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It’s the same old story that happens time and time again…
You’re at a club with your friends having a good night out, when you spot a girl that takes your interest. You want to get her alone, you want to get to know her. There is however one obstacle that makes you hesitate… getting her [...]

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Are girls intimidated by good looking guys? In the past, I have had guys who have said to me “I feel like girls are intimidated by me because I am good looking”. This made me wonder are girls intimidated by hot guys or does it not really matter? Lets take a look…
One [...]

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You may well have noticed the seemingly relentless growth in the ‘how to teach men to pick up women’ market over the last several years. A complete guru overload. It seems like everyone and his brother is throwing together a website vying for your attention, and your hard-earned cash in exchange for the latest ‘hidden [...]

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I have often seen questions from guys relating to how to get a shy girl. Picture this: You approach a girl, and she appears to be so shy that she struggles to keep any conversation going and can’t even relax around you. And it would appear that she will make almost any excuse to get [...]

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I was reading a few articles over at the Wing Girl Method and one particular article caught my eye about having real confidence. You should definitely check it out because it’s a great article posted by a very knowledgeable woman by the name of Marni : ‘How To Have Real Confidence‘
Her opening statement rings very [...]

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Let’s make this clear from the outset. The only way to completely and utterly fail is by giving up. Once you give up on something then that’s it. No chance to succeed. However you will always have mini set backs in life that you need to be willing to endure in order to be successful. [...]

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When it comes to the qualities that attract girls there are 4 main qualities that you need to demonstrate in order to attract girls. David looked at these in his article how to attract girls, however cause they are so important I thought I would reiterate them.
So when it comes to attracting girls you need [...]

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I read an interesting article by Roosh V which I recommend you check out entitled ‘Just Keep Going‘. This made me think of a particular Quote that has always stuck in my mind:
“Success is the ability to go from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm”
(Winston Churchill)
What we need to realise is that in life [...]

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Hey guys, David here.
I was just looking back through some of my posts for 2009 and thought it would be a nice to give you a list of the 5 best articles to read. So if you pick just a hand full of my posts to read then choose these, Social Masters best of 2009:
1) [...]

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[Note from David B. :- As it's Valentines coming up, we got a genuine, certified *girl* to write a guest article about it. Thought it would be good to get things from a female point of view. Preston found Tash in the nearby enchanted forest (so he tells me, personally I think he's on drugs), [...]

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Have you ever needed to know how to get a girl off your mind? Maybe you fancied a girl for ages but she fancied someone else? Perhaps you fancied a girl who was with another guy? Or maybe your girlfriend has split up with you and you can’t get her out of your head?
There are [...]

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Building confidence with women is a very important aspect when it comes to meeting and attracting women. Even if you learn every single trick in the book, it is totally useless if you can’t talk to women and use it. The thing is, building self esteem and developing confidence will improve your chances with getting [...]

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I get asked the question: how to get a girl interested in you? a lot.
Have you ever heard the comment ‘Just be yourself’? This is a very cliched expression and a lot of so called ‘Gurus’ tell you that the best way how to get a girl interested in you is by being someone else. [...]

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Just a short post today to let you know about my PUA Blog list.
If you have not already seen it then check it out here: PUA Blogs
It is a list of all the top PUA blogs being run at the moment. Some by pick up artists like Badboy PUA, Thundercat PUA, Neil Strauss and many [...]

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Hey guys the other day David said about why you can’t do a list of ‘The Top 10 Best Pick up artist’.
If you missed it check it out here: Not Another Best PUA List
The only important thing is to find somebody that you can learn off effectively and that will help you achieve your [...]

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I was just reading an article over at PUA Gathering called  ‘Top 10 Reasons why top 10 Pickup Artists lists suck‘ and I could not agree more.
How do you define a pickup artist, let alone the best PUA? My biggest gripe is that everybody has different wants and goals in life and this includes learning [...]

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This article is about setting goals at anytime of the year. In particular goals that will help you with picking up women. Though the inspiration for this article is that the New Year is upon us (New Years Resolutions) this article is all about setting goals at any time of the year. Goals are important [...]

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What is the biggest problem facing men when it comes to the question how to bed a girl?
Answer – LOGISTICS
Simple as that. When you meet a girl anywhere most guys think the biggest problem you have is working out how to impress a girl. They think that to approach girls, attract the girl and to [...]

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Ever notice how all the ‘how to get girls’ stuff out there is essentially the same rehashed stuff? If you’re like me, you’re totally jaded about this and want something fresh, something new. And something that is thermo-nuclear-powerful in getting women attracted to you, that ain’t just more boring flirting tips. Am I close?
Well, first [...]

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This is one of the biggest dating secrets out there. You won’t read this in magazines, or in books. It hits too close to home for that. But that’s what we’re here for, right? To give you the down-and-dirty stuff that other people are too afraid to say. Stuff that will lift the wool from [...]

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Hey guys just a short post just to make sure you know about my PUA Forums list. If you find a PUA Forum that suits your personality then it can really help your progress at getting good with women.
I have compiled a comprehensive list of PUA Forums from the Pick Up Artist Forum to the [...]

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Ever feel like you just don’t have the time to go out four times a week, for several hours, to get good social skills and pick up women? Well, you’re not alone. In this article I’m gonna go through the bare essentials of how to pick up women, even if you think you are too [...]

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We have already written articles on getting a Black girlfriend and Asian girlfriend. I thought I should write article on how to get a latina girlfriend just to cover another hotly desired group of women.
If you want your girlfriend to be latina then I am sure you are not alone. Latin women are well known [...]

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You already know how to talk to girls, you just don’t realise it yet. In this post, I’m gonna awaken your inner conversational flow, and help you have interesting, funny conversations with women in a way that increases their attraction to you. I believe that everyone can do this given the right framework and these [...]

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I was just reading PUA Lingo’s definition of PUA Affirmations. If you are not 100% sure what an affirmation is then check out PUALingo.com/pua-definitions/affirmation/
Affirmations for me are an important part of learning. They really can help you pick up women.
They are great, especially when you first start learning how to pick up women. They can [...]

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The seven hour rule is dead. You could go out this weekend, pick up a girl, and take her back to your place within an hour or two of meeting her. The old rules from The Game and The Pick up Artist just don’t apply anymore. They have been proven wrong countless times. It’s time [...]

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When you are thinking about “How to” with a girl, whether that is how to get with a girl, how to sleep with a girl, how to get a girlfriend, etc, you must consider your own state of mind.
Before I started learning how to interact properly with women, my state of mind was well and [...]

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There are millions of standard, dull Double Your Dating reviews out there. This is not one of them. Ever one to buck the trend, I’m gonna give you the skinny on this often talk-about ebook, in true Social Masters style, warts and all.
The likelihood is, you have already heard of (or maybe already read) Double [...]

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Ever notice how all the ‘how to get girls’ stuff out there is essentially the same rehashed stuff? If you’re like me, you’re totally jaded about this and want something fresh, something new. And something that is thermo-nuclear-powerful in getting women attracted to you, that ain’t just more boring flirting tips. Am I close?
Well, first [...]

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When I gained access to Brad Jackson’s Puma Skills Mastery Course I was pleasantly surprised. Being a magician for the past 7 years I have become bored by all the fancy website and video designs used in the magic industry. HYPE is the best way to describe it. Me personally I just want hands on, [...]

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How far would you go to sleep with a girl? Getting with women, whether young women, mature women, Asian women etc is one of the greatest things in life but sometimes it just ain’t worth the effort, plus you could use the time saved more productively. Don’t get me wrong, any chance I get I [...]

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When attracting girls things are not always what they seem. Have you ever seen a hot girl with a not so hot guy but who has a lot of money? I am sure we have all seen that situation.
What was your first thought? Was it: ‘That guy must be really awesome to have a girlfriend [...]

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When is comes to meeting women there is a lot of talk about picking up women in pubs and night clubs. This is great for one night stands and occasionally a relationship. But some guys want to know how to find a girlfriend. If you are looking for a girlfriend you are better off going [...]

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Many men want to know how to get an asian girlfriend. Asian women have such a huge appeal to men. To many men there is nothing better than a beautiful asian women. They are petitie, sexy, exotic, cute, etc. There is just something about asian girls that men find very attractive and is the reason [...]

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You may well have heard of ‘demonstrating value’ in the context of meeting and attracting women. Indeed, it is an important concept (and don’t worry, I’ll recap here if you need), but on it’s own just to demonstrate value is an incomplete method for igniting passionate attraction in the women you are interacting with.
What you [...]

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Following on from one of David’s most recent articles, ‘You Are Already Naturally Attractive To Women‘, I wanted to make a point about being ‘good with women’. Through out your life you must have seen guys out there who are good with women. We have all seen them. They are good with young women or [...]

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Just heard that the LEGEND Michael Jackson died. Gotta admit I’m pretty sad. I first heard Dangerous when I was about 10 and instantly fell in love with his awesome music & out-of-this-world talent.
The world has lost a talented guy.
Now you maybe wondering what the hell Micheal Jackson has to do with meeting women…
Let’s face [...]

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Yeah, you read that right. You are already naturally attractive to women, and I can prove it.
“What the hell?” I hear you say, “Where the fuck are they all then?”
This is what I’ve been beavering away at for the past few months. See I believe (and has been proven to me many times in real [...]

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My main man David Black is still working away to bring you what will hopefully be content that will seriously help your interactions with women. I have never known him to work so hard on one piece of content. I am sure you know that he likes the easy life, so with this much effort [...]

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Was just reading great article over at ‘Attract Women Anywhere’ blog about pushing through your comfort zone. Worth checking it out: Being Comfortable vs. Pushing your Comfort Zone? Oyyy, what to do!
You need to push outside your comfort zone in order to become more confident in social situations. It is something I feel should be [...]

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I know from experience having spoken to many many guys, that everyone wants what they have not got. They feel like if they were more like “this” then they would not have a problem with women.
I work in a small group at work. In particular there are a 2 guys I speak to a lot. [...]

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Too most people it is a code. Too those who know it, it has become a part of their life. It begs the question ‘Is jargon a good thing or a bad thing?’ I was reading a very interesting article on the PUA Lingo website called ‘How Much Jargon Is Too Much Jargon?’ What a [...]

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Firstly lets get this straight. There are no rules to when you should call. Some people call the next day after getting the number and have great success, others leave it 2-3 days and get the same results.
It really comes down to personal preference. I just want to share my thoughts on the subject and [...]

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Hey guys just read a great post over at Big Send World entitled ‘How I’ve Achieved Bulletproof State’ by SPG (This was a link to the article but has been taken down for now while the site is under maintenance). What you must realise is that having the right attitude can make a huge difference [...]

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When a women does something strange or unusual, chances are you will not be the first one to experience such strange behaviours. A close friend of mine this past Easter Sunday experienced something rather strange, and he wanted me to share it with you, so you could learn from his experience…
A girl he met a [...]

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This is not a drill. I repeat this is not a drill. This is David Black. I’m currently deep underground in the Social Masters secret Headquarters, working on something pretty exciting. Its all hush-hush and maximum-security at the moment. But more details to come real soon…
In the meantime, get your teeth stuck into some cool [...]

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In this article you’re gonna learn how you can ‘market’ yourself to women, using powerful and proven psychological principles to position yourself (the ‘product’) in the best possible light – just like a company advertises their product to their potential customers.

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Let’s start this post off with a quote from arguably the worlds greatest basketball player, Michael Jordan. I want you to read it carefully and take it all in:
I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. [...]

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If you wanna get women to notice you, then you gotta stand out from the crowd, rise above the noise. You gotta be different, in an attractive way.
There is a right way to do this, that will build attraction, and a wrong way, that will lessen attraction, or weird her out even.
The ‘Wrong Way’(tm):
Buying [...]

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You probably need a break from all the seriousness of learning to meet and attract women. Here’s something for a bit of fun…
The top 10 worst pickup lines in the whole world, and why they are (potentially) so terrible for attracting women. Feel free to approach a girl armed with one of these if you [...]

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Your inner-game is the most crucial of all aspects when it comes to meeting and attracting women.
I have never shared these insights with anyone before, as they are pretty personal to me. I’m only letting them out now because a close friend of mine convinced me that it would help guys to get to the [...]

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Booze, or no booze? The eternal, endless debate…
“Yes, you should drink to have fun and be sociable.”
“No, you shouldn’t drink because it hinders your ability to meet women effectively.”
“It’s ok to have a few to loosen up, but don’t get drunk.”
When it comes down to it, I’m not here to preach to anyone. Whatever you [...]

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Firstly I would like to point out that I am a huge fan of Neil Strauss. I have read the game and thoroughly enjoyed it. If you haven’t read it I recommend you buy it and read it straight away because the guy is a genius.
However I recently saw this video of him watched him [...]

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Sometimes you can get so focused on attracting women that you don’t even notice when women attract you, or make an attempt at putting out the signals, as they say. How many attractive females do you think you have potentially missed from not noticing a girl checking you out, or smiling at you?
Women have several [...]

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The media gravy train keeps on a rollin’. I just read an article in a girlie mag about a little nine year old guy called Alec Greven, who’s overhyped, glorified homework assignment ‘How To Talk To Girls’ has been all over the US media more times than a Britney Spears camel toe.
Can nobody else see [...]

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Have you ever been out in a club… The bassline is thumping, people are crammed everywhere, and you’re thinking to yourself, “How do you have a conversation with women in a place like this, when the music is so damn loud?”

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“Ooooooooweeeee! I’m Caster Troy.” Do you know that line? Great, great part from John Woo’s epic action film. I am a big fan of old Johnny-boy-Woo, especially this little number. And who would have thought, hidden within the explosions, the gunfights, the blood and the guts, are bodylanguage principles at work that can help you [...]

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By far and away the single biggest thing preventing you from approaching women in clubs and bars is your attitude and mindset when in those places. You can call it your state, you can call it your mood.
Whatever name it is given, it can be the *one thing* that, if changed, can give you a [...]

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Today I am going to focus on one particular aspect of approaching and that is how to approach a girl on the street. This maybe considered the scariest approach of them all. However this should not be the case. In fact, done right, it can be one of the easiest.

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First impressions when approaching a woman are the key to long-term attraction. If you have ever witnessed a bloke approaching a group of women, if you pay attention you will see the womens’ body language and facial expressions will tell you within the first few minutes what they think of him, on a sexual level. Attracted, or repulsed.

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Most pick up artists will tell you that porn is terrible for your interactions with women. Commonly held assumptions are that it will prevent you from picking up girls for the following reasons:

It stops you going out because it is the easier alternative. Why the hassle of meeting women when you can jump on the [...]

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Many guys often don’t realise but a bit of thought should go into a first date. Doing things right can dramatically increase the attraction that you have built up with the girl. On the other hand getting things wrong can also have the opposite effect, not what we’re after. So lets delve into some of my first date tips.

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You may be asking yourself, “Who the hell is this David Black dude?” Well sit back, relax, bust open a cold one. Cos this is a story of how a man went from zero, to hero with women, and how you can too…
Ever have that feeling, when you were like 4 years old, and you [...]

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Imagine this: Women approach you, flirt with you, ask for your number, and ask *you* out. Sounds pretty good, huh? Well if you’re anything like me, you want to put as little effort in as possible to get maximum results. It is possible, regardless of looks, age, money, etc. to have girls approaching you and asking you out.

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Let’s talk about how to get a black girlfriend. The universal appeal of curvaceous, big-bootayed, exotic black women is something many men can identify with. Now its time for *you* to get a bit of colour in your life. Read on to find out how…
First thing to get down is this: All women are the [...]

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We were somewhere around Bristol on the edge of the town, ready to pick up girls, when the fear began to take hold. I remember saying something like “I’m feeling a little woosie here, maybe you should approach first.” He had disappeared, I assumed for a pee, when suddenly I was engulfed by women, hundreds [...]

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