Attracting Girls – Don’t Mistake The Smoke For The Fire

When attracting girls things are not always what they seem. Have you ever seen a hot girl with a not so hot guy but who has a lot of money? I am sure we have all seen that situation.

What was your first thought? Was it: ‘That guy must be really awesome to have a girlfriend like that’ or was it: ‘Shes a gold digger’.

I would imagine most of you will be saying gold digger. I used to say the same thing. Most of the guys I speak to think the same thing. Does that mean we are right? Well maybe. Some girls are gold diggers, but the vast majority will like the guy because he is an awesome person to be around.

Why is this the case?

Think about it this way. Most people who are rich have gone out and made the money themselves. This is people such as, entrepreneurs, sports people, actors, rock stars, etc. All these people have the same thing in common. They demonstrate the values that women like in men. This helps them meet girls and date girls easy. It is the basics when it comes to how to attract women.

They all show confidence. Women love men who are confident. To be successful in any of the things I listed above, you need the confidence to go out and do it. Confident men know what they want. They are leaders. They are the sort of people who can make decisions even in the toughest of situations. Confidence really does make meeting women, attracting women and dating women so much easier. To women this is attractive because it shows them that you can look after them and protect them.

Women love men who have ambition. It reflects on your character as an individual. I remember hearing a guy at work who had been dumped by his girlfriend because he said ‘he was happy just to settle for working at a bog standard shop’. The reason is, it says that you are happy to be mediocre. Women want men who are willing to make something of themselves. Even if you are not successful it still shows that you want to be the best you can be. That is all that matters.

Remember if you are looking for girls to find you irresistable you must demonstrate the values that will make them have no choice but to be attracted to you. Attracting girls is all about demonstrating key characteristics. I recommend you check out ‘How to attract girls‘ for more infromation on character traits women love.

Catch you laters,
Preston Blain

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This is absolutely true in every way. It’s all about passion, confidence and will. Women want a guy who wants to go somewhere and isn’t willing to settle (even if there’s a possibility that he won’t settle for her). It’s crazy to think about but that is the quintessential element of desire and attraction.
joey jones

Mostly true, except for Most people who are rich have gone out and made the money themselves.

Most people who are rich have gotten rich from others doing the hard work, or from their parents.
http://social-masters.com/blog David Black

Dude, you've kinda missed the point. Leadership, telling people what to do, getting them to do your work for you, is in itself attractive also. That's why men in power (senators, CEOs, etc.) have women swooning after them.