Attract Women Online With Web2.0 pt.2
In the first part of this series, you set up accounts on the social media sites we will be using to approach women online, attract women online and general stuff how to pick up women online.
If you missed it, you can read it here: attract women with web 2.0 pt1.
Today we’re gonna cover just what each site is for, and how they tie together to create a powerful, attractive online presence that will attract beautiful women, with no ‘pick up lines’ required.
Let’s dive into the thick of it…
Quick Recap
Our aims here are to:
- Create matching profiles on the main social media sites (myspace, facebook, bebo)
- Fill these profiles with additional multimedia content using sites such as flickr, YouTube, blogger and playlist.com
- Make it ‘realtime’ with Twitter
- Bring it all together using friendfeed as a Lifecasting platform.
Lifecasting – “What The Deuce?”
Lifecasting is something you’re going to hear loads about in 2009. Essentially it means sharing the stuff that happens in your life, as it happens (and as technology progresses, we’re going to see things get closer and closer to ‘real-time’).
Example scenario :- you go watch a live band on a Friday night with a mate.
Whilst there:
- You post to Twitter from your mobile: “Watching so-and-so band, totally awesome.”
- You take some photos on your digital camera.
- Your friend captures a video of you rocking out together.
When you get home:
- You write about the gig on your blog.
- You upload your photos to flickr, which immediately show on all your social profiles, and gets posted to twitter.
- Your friend’s video gets uploaded to YouTube, which displays on your social profiles, and you post to twitter about it.
So now there is a multimedia record of the event ‘you and your friend went to see a band Friday night’. That is Lifecasting. Think of it like a multimedia timeline of what goes on in your life.
What does this have to do with how to meet women?
A lot. Selectively Lifecasting the highlights of the coolest things you get up to creates an online ‘character’ that is dictated only by your creativity.
The more exciting and cool you can make everything you post about, the more attractive you will be in the eyes of whoever is looking at your shit. This is what attracts women. Remeber, for anyone, perception is reality.
Important note – deception is bad. Don’t make stuff up. Actually do the cool stuff you lifecast about. If fake it, just to pick up girls, then not only will you get found out (and rightly so), but you will also be missing out on *actual cool experiences*. What’s the point in that?
If you think you have to fake it, then seriously consider that maybe you just need to get out there and start living life. Start being the attractive, mature man that is lying dormant inside you. Honesty and being genuine are *good things*.
Rant over.
Let’s get into what each site is actually for…
Facebook, Bebo, MySpace – Social ‘friend’ sites
This is where your main ‘profile’ exists, and where other stuff you post gets fed to. You don’t need to put in a huge amount of information about yourself, as your actual multimedia lifecasting will convey your character with maximum impact anyway, and is the main focus of how to pick up women online.
Twitter – status updates
Twitter is a service based around ‘what are you doing right now?’. Each post is limited to only 140 characters, so you are forced to get to the point. It’s also called microblogging. Gonna explode in 2009.
You can follow anyone else that is on Twitter and see what they are up to. Very addictive stuff that you can use to attract girls. Also a good place for flirting online.
Flickr – photos
Flickr is for photo uploading and sharing. It can be integrated with the other web2.0 services we will be using.
YouTube – videos
Erm, I guess you know what this site is, seeing as it is the number 3 top site on the entire internet. Share your vids. Can also be integrated with the other sites we’ll be using.
Videos are extremely powerful for demonstrating your character, which, no matter your situation, is how to pick up women.
PlayList.com – music
You can use this site to create a playlist of your favourite music, which can then, you guessed it, show up on your social media profiles. Great for sharing what music you love, by letting people who visit your profile listen to it.
Animoto – cool clips
This is one of the best websites to come out recently. You upload pictures and music, and it creates an amazing video automatically. Go and try it, the results are amazing.
You can create 30 second shorts with a free account, which is plently really for our ADD purposes.
Blogger & Blogspot
The dating tips you’re reading right now, this site, is a blog. It’s an online journal or diary. The absolute easiest and quickest way to create a unique and personal ‘website’ on the planet.
You’ll be using your blog to write slightly longer pieces than you would post to twitter or on a social media site. You can tell stories, share your opinions, or whatever. It all adds to the character you are portraying with all this stuff.
FriendFeed
FriendFeed takes all the stuff you pots to all those sites above, and mashes it all onto one site. It creates a ‘newsfeed’ of the goings on in your life.
Many people believe this kind of ‘feed’ setup to be the future of how information flows on the whole internet, but that’s another story.
What’s important to us, is that what you see on Friendfeed is your Lifecast in it’s purest form.
Hang On, This Sounds Like Tons of Work!?
Trust me when I say I’m one of the laziest people I know. Don’t worry, in fact it’s one of my dating secrets of success…
To set everything up takes a bit of effort, but once you have your profiles done, and some content up on each of the sites above, you’ll only have to post a few tweets to Twitter every now and again, perhaps upload a photo once in a blue moon, etc.
All the pieces to your ‘character’ will already be in place.
Ok Sounds Good, Now What?
All you have to do now is connect with others that are out there in cyberspace. Especially the women that you may be interested in.
As for how to do it, you’ll find out in the next part of this series…
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David Black
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