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Do you wanna attract the girls you want? Of course you do.

We all know that the pick up world is pretty much divided into 2 sections. The first is ‘Natural Game’ and the second is ‘Routine Based Stuff’. Both proven to be successful when learning how to attract a girl.

Which one do you think will be easier to use when it comes to attracting a girl you want?

I would imagine most of you would say natural and I would agree. If you are being yourself then of course you are more likely to attract the girls you want. Why? Because you are being true to yourself and showing your own personality and values and thus will attract women who have similar interests to you. Personally I am a much bigger fan of natural based pick up because of this point and so would recommend it to anyone. However I do believe that routine based methods can be used to to attract a girl you desire.

Just so you know, I believe that routines are an excellent starting place for beginners to learn ways to attract a girl. They can give you that added confidence because you are not worrying about what to say. However once you have gotten to a certain standard and you feel as though the need for ‘knowing’ what to say becomes less, then I believe it is time to move on. Something I believe in, is always trying to improve all the time. If you feel there is room for improvement then go for it.

Now I am not just saying that you should just dump routines and go straight to being a complete natural cause that would be very single-minded of me. You know ‘It’s my way or the highway’ kind of thing. However, if you want to do that, then I recommend it. I think anyone who wants to become more natural with women should definitely go for it.

How to attract a girls using routines (The girls you want that is).

If you still want to use routines then there is a way to still allow your true self to shine through. Instead of just picking new routines willy nilly off the internet and using them word for word, why not try picking ones that relate closely to you. You can always modify them a little yourself in order to make them fit really snug.

Is it really worth the extra aggro of doing that?

I believe so and hopefully you will to. See this way you are still portraying your own natural characteristics, but you are just doing it in a routine manner. Displaying your natural characteristics is so important because that is who you are and by doing so will give you a better chance of meeting girl who have similar interests to you. Also I am sure once you get to know the particular girl you are talking to you will move away from routines because the need for them becomes less. When this happens it won’t matter because she already likes you for who you are and not who you were.

If on the other hand you use routines not based on your values and personality then trust me, true happiness is not coming your way anytime soon. Especially because if you get a little more serious with the girl you met, there may come a time when you want to be yourself more around her. Problem is you may start thinking, “Does she like me or the guy I portrayed when I met her?”. Not good.

So to attract the girls you want you need to show your true self right from the get-go. Whether that is with routines or more natural style doesn’t really matter. As long as you allow your true self to show right from the start, you are more likely to attract girls who have the same interests, then you are onto a winner.

To learn how to unleash your natural characteristics check out: Death Of Game

Catch you laters,
Preston Blain