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Attract A Girl In 2 Minutes Flat

First impressions when approaching a woman are the key to long-term attraction. If you have ever witnessed a bloke approaching a group of women, if you pay attention you will see the womens’ body language and facial expressions will tell you within the first few minutes what they think of him, on a sexual level. Attracted, or repulsed.

Once you master the skill of making an amazing first impression, which I am gonna go into here, you will get your interactions with women off to a flying start. Women will be attracted to you in less time than you thought possible, and will slot you into the ‘attractive’ pigeon hole right off the bat.

Get this crucial part of any interaction wrong however, and you will be slotted into the ‘interesting but unattractive friend’ category, or even worse the ‘creepy dude in the bar’ category, faster than you can say, “Inappropriate boob groping.”

So let’s get into how exactly you go about creating an amazing, attractive first impression.

Try doing all of the following within the first 120 seconds of approaching women:

• Make her laugh (with an observation about her).
• Make fun of her.
• Touch her.
• Challenge her.
• Display indifference.

The order isn’t really that important, just focus on the principles behind each item.

Make Her Laugh

If you can do this with your opening line, great. An example might be, if you are in a bar and a girl brushes past you, you could say (in your best fake Oriental stereotype accent), “Looky looky, but no touchy!” Something like this will get you in there, and get her laughing from the get-go. All good stuff.

Another example, if she doesn’t laugh at your ‘opener’, would be to make a humorous observation about her appearance, or something in particular she is wearing. If she is wearing boots that look like wellies you could say something like, “You look like you just came from working on the farm. What were you doing, mucking out the chickens?” Say this with a gleam in your eye so she knows you are kidding. This is the general idea.

Make Fun of Her

I love doing this, cos I’m a little bit sadistic. Any time she makes a mistake, or does *anything* (no matter how slight) that you could take the piss out of, get all over it like a cheap suit.

She stutters, you say something like, “Alright retard, miss you speech therapy class today?” She stumbles, or drops something, try something like, “Watch out, Godzilla on the rampage.” She can’t remember something, or gets some fact wrong, “Uh oh, senile dementia setting in already.”

The principle is that you should be taking the mick out of her, in a way that makes her laugh at herself cos what you say is so witty and funny.

Practice enough and you’ll get to the stage where you can think these up as they happen, real-time in reaction to things that the girls do in your interactions.

Touch Her

Simple. As soon as you can, touch her.

Be gesturing as you talk and brush her. Tap her on the upper arm subtly when she laughs at something.

This sets you apart as a man confident around women, and is very attractive.

Challenge Her

“I like women that are deep, and have a bit of personality, not just an air head.” This is an example of presenting her with a challenge. By saying what you like, she will usually try and convince you that she meets that criteria. It is human nature.

By doing this you communicate that you are picky, you have options, and you are selective, you have high standards. You demonstrate that you know what you want, and you will go after it in life. All incredibly attractive to women.

Display Indifference

The best way to react to most kinds of emotional response in her, is to be indifferent.

If she gets bitchy cos your funny line was a bit too insulting, don’t react. She has no effect on your emotions. This drives women crazy and propels sexual tension into the stratosphere.

I have had women 100% *pissed off* with me, and I literally turned my back on her to talk to her one other friend that was there. Guess what? 10 Minutes later me and that same girl were on the dancefloor together, and she was doing unrepeatable things right infront of my face. Massive sexual tension.

Or if she threatens to walk away, be like, “Go on then.” This will almost force her to stay put and try to deflate the massive sexual tension bubble you just created. Don’t let her do it. It is a battle of wills, of personalities.

Don’t back down, down’t apologise, don’t give in.

And above all else: don’t give a shit.

Till next time,

David Black

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